Ok made an anonymous account. The problem at hand in my mom and family. My mom comes from a huge enmeshed family. She has 6 sisters and 4 brothers. The youngest two were adopted as a sibling group. As I said my mom was emeshed and we went to her parents everyday in the summer and every weekend in the winter and fall.
The youngest 2 came along when I was 3. The boy was 6 the girl was 12. Long story short the girl ended up being rehomed and the boy remained. *trigger* the earliest I remember the boy started molesting me at age 4. I never told anyone I would just cry and beg my mom not to take my over to my grandparents. Which always ended up with us going and my grandparents screaming at me for giving my "poor mom" such a hard time. It stopped when I turned 7 when I told him I would kill him. Yep at 7 I was that mad.
Ff to now I have to realtionship with my moms family cause this guy is still around. When my mom kept asking why I co her entire family. I finally told her. It was really hard and she one accused me of lying then said well even if it did you were both kids. She claims that's what kids do. I said no I have children and it most certainly isn't what children do.
After her being so hurtful and ugly I co her off. Since she chooses to not believe and continue to have a relationship with this man I do not believe shes a safe person for my children to be around. Now Im dealing with her saying rude hateful things on fb and my father texting me saying I need to fix this.
Am I wrong for cutting her off? I blocked her on fb but I have friends of mine who parents are friends with my mom asking me how I could be so awful. What do I tell them? I don't want people knowing my business. Also my dad? Fix this fix what exactly? What did I do wrong? I just dont get it. How do I deal with these people!??
The youngest 2 came along when I was 3. The boy was 6 the girl was 12. Long story short the girl ended up being rehomed and the boy remained. *trigger* the earliest I remember the boy started molesting me at age 4. I never told anyone I would just cry and beg my mom not to take my over to my grandparents. Which always ended up with us going and my grandparents screaming at me for giving my "poor mom" such a hard time. It stopped when I turned 7 when I told him I would kill him. Yep at 7 I was that mad.
Ff to now I have to realtionship with my moms family cause this guy is still around. When my mom kept asking why I co her entire family. I finally told her. It was really hard and she one accused me of lying then said well even if it did you were both kids. She claims that's what kids do. I said no I have children and it most certainly isn't what children do.
After her being so hurtful and ugly I co her off. Since she chooses to not believe and continue to have a relationship with this man I do not believe shes a safe person for my children to be around. Now Im dealing with her saying rude hateful things on fb and my father texting me saying I need to fix this.
Am I wrong for cutting her off? I blocked her on fb but I have friends of mine who parents are friends with my mom asking me how I could be so awful. What do I tell them? I don't want people knowing my business. Also my dad? Fix this fix what exactly? What did I do wrong? I just dont get it. How do I deal with these people!??