Awkward Aunt -TRIGGER- *update pg...
Old lurker, new name because I can't remember passwords. I'm really early in my 4th pregnancy and we've decided to let the families know, this is about my aunt. We told everyone at dinner last night,...
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Asking for IL to not visit...
Read the sticky, and have been lurking for a few days - though fairly new here and new to the IL stuff as well. HI! Â BG: I moved to Florida, from Maryland when I was 8 months pregnant to live with BF,...
View ArticleSleepover "certificate"
My Inlaws live about an hour away. I'm no fan of going to their house or having my kids there over night. No specific reason, I'm just not. My MIL (probably sensing this by now) has been a bit...
View ArticleNormal check request *TRIGGER* pregnancy loss Update 5,10,11
Hello, I've posted here before about something relatively minor but I have a slightly bigger issue now. I lost my daughter to preterm labor at 21 weeks; she lived for 45 minutes and this has been the...
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Two birthdays? Is this normal?
I am in the process of divorcing my husband. It's a low-conflict divorce and we remain good friends, I doubt if this is going to change much. We have twins who will be 1 at the end of the month. We...
View ArticleToo Close to Folks
I want to preface this post my saying that I know I have made many, many mistakes in my life and I am trying to change for the better. I have my BGP on, I read the sticky and I am prepared to get my...
View ArticleFather In Law wont go away!!
So I moved with my husband over a year ago to stay with his dad, because he needed us. WELL, this year has been quite the trick, for lack of a better term. My husband and I told him the beginning of...
View ArticleWhere do I go from here? UD 3, 5, 9,House visit 11, UD 28, Email 33
Long time lurker, first time poster here. After reading so many stories on here I looked into what a narcissist is and I'm all but 100% sure that my mother has the disorder. Every single trait that I...
View ArticleWhere's so-n-so?
We are headed to a family function and my FIL has this annoying habit of asking where my kids are at. They are ages 2, 4, and 7. We trust them to play on their own and I don't think that we need to...
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Ppd and negative ppl
I'm not sure if this is the right place for this but I'll give it a try. My dealing with horrible PPD and some other pp issues. I'm working on it ... But it seems like my family is all so negative. I...
View ArticleYellow Dress UD 160, 201, baby! 241, 265, 272, 280, 291, 299, 333, triggers 344
Earlier updates:Â 5, 10, 18, 26, 28, 31, 41, 43, 52, 62, 89, 99, 102, 108, 114, 129, 138 Longtime lurker, going anon because a lot of people I know in real life know my normal sn. Sorry if this gets...
View ArticleHelp with my daughter...2,4,6,9,12,15... Apology and talk 16, update 35
I'm not sure of this would be the right place or not for advice, but I've been lurking here awhile and could really use some unbiased advice. This involves 20 year old daughter. We have a very close...
View ArticleQuit tossing my stuff! - UD:18
I am fed up and I clearly have not only an IL issue I have a DuF issue. Here's how the story goes. DF and I live with his parents and sister, they can't afford this place without us and we are trying...
View ArticleWhat is the best way to handle this situation?
Was referred here from Marriage and Relationships. Could use some insight and advice. Please take the time to read and I can provide more information if needed. Thanks. Please stay with me as i try to...
View ArticleOk my own account *trigger* text included pg 2, 4
Ok made an anonymous account. The problem at hand in my mom and family. My mom comes from a huge enmeshed family. She has 6 sisters and 4 brothers. The youngest two were adopted as a sibling group. As...
View ArticleThey moved 1 mile away
Long time poster, new SN, way too much history to post. Trust me when I say my ILs are classic narcissistics and boundry stomping assholes. They are kept on a short leash. They sold their house 20...
View ArticleEarly signs of BIG problems? Crazy rude GMIL
Hi ladies.I have just fallen pregnant and am 6 weeks pregnant today. Yay.But I think there is going to be some big problems with my partners grandma, My FGMIL.So this is what the deal is, When we where...
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Am I being unreasonable? Up p 15. up 27 up 56, 67,79, 98, 112, 115, 127
My SIL (my husband's brother's wife) is a user. She expects (and provides absolutely no financial compensation) family to look after their large dog while she and her husband travel for work, which is...
View ArticleBirthday Drama..We went.
New poster, long time lurker, you guys saved me from boredom while on bed rest. Know the rules, read the sticky. Not much background MIL, is my BEC and since birth of my surprise baby in August 2013,...
View ArticleMIL .... now FIL: UPDATE p 5, 9, 10, 12
Hence the sn, went anonymous for this one due to details and easily recognizable name. I'll try to make this as short as possible- will give more details upon request. BG: MIL was not in DH's life, she...
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