I should have come here a long time ago...
I've been lurking for a while but probably should have asked for advice a long time ago. There is lots of background with my older sister and mother but don't want to make this too long. Bottom line is...
View ArticleDad told my husband I am psychotic. ud pg 9, q pg 12 ud pg 14
My parents are devout LDS and not reacting well to the news that I don't believe in the church and no longer want to go. I tried to stop going back in 2005 but was eventually pressured back into going...
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FMIL is SO rude!!
I got engaged on tuesday but my FMIL who always has a problem with me (examples, i will not buy her UNDERAGE daughter alcohol, and she wont do it because shes an ex alcoholic!!), I don't want my...
View ArticleDf and my mom issues
My mom doesn't like my df, doesn't want him disciplining my 4 year old because biologically he's not his child, claims we abuse him because we discipline and teach him right from wrong, wasn't happy we...
View ArticleAttending events where TO PIL will be: UD 3
Background on here. I wanted to start a new post because my updates had gotten lost in the fast moving board. I'm seeking new advice. DHs brother is getting married in Nov. DH is in the wedding party....
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OT: Since we are having a fun day, DWIL's Noah update! UD pg 2,3
Noah continues to have a wonderful senior year, I can't believe he's about to graduate! The last post was that he had won Homecoming King in Sept. Let's see, he finished Special Olympics BBall and they...
View ArticleHow much to gift SIL for wedding (cross posted)
I'm looking over our budget right now and I had saved 800.00 to be in SIL's wedding AND for gifts (I figured dresses/suits would be around 600.00 and the rest for gifts) our whole family is in the...
View ArticleMom and Dad Crashed Vacation
About 6 month ago, dh and I decided to spend our vacation time next month in Seattle area. We planned to spend time with my grandparents who will be there visiting my uncle. Unfortunately, my mother,...
View ArticleWhen to step in? TRIGGER pg 3
Bil and his wife have been together for 18 years, married for 8, and ever since I have known them (15 years) they have always had issues. Everyone in the family knows of their issues because bil's wife...
View ArticleFree engagement pictures - okay gift?
For SILs wedding, she asked me to shoot her engagement pictures. They turned out great. I edited them and gave her full rights to print and use them however she wanted. Would you consider this an...
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CO MOO - "You are really making our life hard"UDp8 trojan pkg,p11 "throw it...
So my MOO & FOO are CO. Since about April. (I have background on here somewhere, I'll try to link it in the comments). I haven't spoken to them since the lawn tantrums during the CO, with the...
View ArticleMoH in cousins wedding... Sick child complications
My cousins wedding is Sunday. I'm the MoH, my son and daughter are also in the wedding. Much to my great horror, we contracted a terrible stomach bug this week. My son was sick 5 days, and my daughter...
View ArticleHarassed about announcing my pregnancy UPDATES
My cousin (who grew up in our house) asked my husband a few weeks ago if we were pregnant. He said no and she felt his response wasn't quick enough (via text) so she decided that she didn't believe...
View ArticleIn Laws & money *Are they ripping us off*
My in laws are horrible with money and are always asking DH to pay for things. He currently is on their car insurance and phone plan because we are waiting out the policy (rather than pay early...
View ArticleWhat do you do when people use unacceptable slurs?
I hate it when people use the r word. In my opinion it's gross and unacceptable. So what do you say to people that commit this social faux pas? I've done everything from completely leaving to...
View ArticleI feel myself sliding...ud pg 5 long Q? pg 6 wedding pg 9, ud11 new spine on 12
maybe some of you gals remember me. my old account is on a defunct email address, and I can't remember my password. My Big Sis(BS) has been completely cut off for well over two years now, with no...
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Stop being a brat... Grandparents have cut us off pg 32
My mom and Aunt K are in ITO. Aunt P hasn't talked to me about it at all (haven't seen her) and today we got into a text altercation about how I haven't responded to her group emails about family get...
View ArticleGMa hates the baby's name (ha!)
First post on DWIL, woot woot! Long time lurker, and though I have nutty relatives, this is my first DWIL-worthy story. I guess this is more of an OMG story, since I (hopefully) reacted in a...
View ArticleWhen there's an issue EVERYtime we talk to MIL
Ok, long time lurker created anon account for this. My DH and I have been dealing with my MIL and her drama for too long. BG: DH and I are newlyweds, but have been together for 7.5 years, lived...
View ArticleOverly-critical MOO (Update on pg 2, 3)
I love my parents, and they have helped me a lot with certain things (loaned me and my SO money so we could buy our house), so I don't want to paint either of them as uncaring or anything, but since my...
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