Slightly OT- childcare Q
I am wondering about 1) normal daycare etiquette 2) if I need to find new daycare My LO has been going to the same in home provider for a year now. I didn't know her prior. She was always really great....
View ArticleWriting email to my mom, help! Updates: pie pan 47, Christmas visit requests...
Updates:2,3,7,8,10,12,14-20,24,26,27, 31, 34, 35, (trigger) 36, 38, car door 41. My mom is my BEC and certain things she does really get to me. I can't figure out if she fits the profile for any of the...
View ArticleMischief Managed (Well, I'm getting there...)p. 3, 63, 89, 125
This is a continuation of my last thread because glitchy. Background: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a50697532/its_starting_8_11_13_1417_26_38_45_58_59_61_65_67_70_71_80_101_help?cpg=204 No...
View ArticleDrama with Grandparents, update pg 22, update pg 44, update pg 47, update pg 49
Hey ladies... I posted this in Oct 2013 birthclub but a lot of posters told me to post here to get some honest feedback and help me stand up to my grandparents. In need of some advice or just some...
View Articleyour other grandma...
I have some old bg on here about MIL somewhere. My DH and I live 2000 miles away from our families so we dont deal with them at all really. We are currently visiting for the first time in 2 years. We...
View ArticleMIL's Christmas letter
MIL sends out an annual Christmas letter where she writes little paragraphs about what she did for the year and also her kids and now the grandchildren. The woman is my BEC for many reasons. It all...
View ArticleAlcohol and religious parents.
Insert the usual spiel. Long time lurker, first time poster, had to change my screen name because the other is too identifying blah blah blah... I am going to visit family a few states away. I am...
View ArticleAny advice on mail forwarding services?
My stalker father is trying to get my address again. The flying monkeys are out asking for an address to send holiday greetings to and so on. And there's enough of them that I really don't know who's a...
View ArticleNarc mom...
I'm going to try and keep this short. There's years of background I could include, but I'm not sure it's necessary. I will answer any questions if need be. Thanks to DWIL I've realized my mom is a full...
View ArticleIt's not about the furniture 81,85,86, MIL email 90
UD 5-18,25,31,32, 36, 37, 41, 50, 54, 58, 62,63,64,65 I will preface this by saying that I realize I needed to have a spine years ago and have made MANY mistakes with my MIL but I am trying to rehab...
View ArticleGift Confusion
I'll keep it short. My SIL (bro's wife) asked my family to buy a specific gift for DN birthday. She sent me the link to order it online. I was fine with that because I did ask what to get him. The gift...
View ArticleILs and gift boundaries
I am just wondering how you stick to gift boundaries concerning your kids. We have let everyone know our boundary, and my FOO stuck to it, respected it. I am terrified my MIL won't. She is my BEC, and...
View ArticleNot ready to forgive CO SIL UPDATE...dinner disaster
Hi everyone, its been a long time since I've been here, life has been a little turned upside down SIL was cut off for 2 years for sending a very hateful email to me while I was 9 months pregnant and...
View ArticleAdvice for a friend, her crazy MOO.
My friend, let's call her C has one LO that is 10 months old. Her parents are toxic as they come and I feel like I'm not great at giving advice so I wanted input from you. So C posted that she was...
View ArticleTwo part question: grandparents who won't let it go, and minor inlaws
Background, my husband's family lives about three hours away (or did when my son was born, we have since moved approximately 30 minutes away.) I was induced for high blood pressure issues and so we...
View ArticleUnicorn for sister is dead...
So I might have some background on sister if someone can link. I CO parents a few years ago over Uncle Perv and their enabling of him. Sister still keeps in contact with them, hosts my parents etc. I...
View ArticleMiddle of the night MOO epiphanies...to tell or not to tell
I've been lurking for awhile now after things with my MIL died down. I've been doing my best to handle my mom and sister, and while I am making progress, it is slow and frustrating. I have no one to...
View ArticleGoing to the IL's tomorrow.
back story: I had a pretty decent relationship with my IL's until LO was born, they kept asking to come over ALL the time, I thought once a month was good enough, I'm a FTM and just wanted to be with...
View ArticleDHs Aunt... Cant deal anymore!
Ok so super long story not so short. My DH and I have very similar backgrounds. Both bio parents are crazy and completely CO no contact with either mother or father although I occationnally get the "I...
View Articlemom is on drugs!
So my mom and I relationship is not the greatest. Ever since my dad past she misused me. Putting my name on her bills taking my money everything. She even falsely claimed me on her taxes. I have...
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