In the grand scheme of things my mother in law is not that bad. She is my BEC because she can be super passive aggressive. Ex. I asked her not to use the sink because I'm recaulking it. She agrees saying she wont touch it. I wake up the next morning to a sink filled with water.
Anyways I know that's a tiny thing and I try to get over it. The problem is though that we work together with my husband. Our 2 month old comes with us because we own the buisness. I don't like to let her hold him because BEC. But my husband who is willfully blind passes baby to her. (mind you this is only once a day). Every freaking time she walks away with him. I told my husband how uncomfortable this makes me and he has told her 4 fucking times now not to walk away. Well today guess what, he hands her the baby and she doesn't just walk down the hall like she usually does. She walks out of the room. I lost my shit on my husband and he went and got her to come back. Am i being silly by asking her not to leave my visinity? I don't think she would ever do anything to harm him, I just don't want him away from me.
If you got this far thank you!
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Mil is BEC and walks away when she holds 2month old ds. Am I crazy?