MoH in cousins wedding... Sick child complications- p 27
My cousins wedding is Sunday. I'm the MoH, my son and daughter are also in the wedding. Much to my great horror, we contracted a terrible stomach bug this week. My son was sick 5 days, and my daughter...
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Oh I don't even know anymore. *Trigger(s)*
So gah, I don't even know where to begin. Ok maybe some BG. We will do MIL first. My MIL was a single mom with 3 kids with 3 differ dads. She is a type of mom that hopes everyone would help her raise...
View ArticleMOO Guilt Trip, Update p. 2, 8
My husband recently accepted a position working in another state. It is a great opportunity for him. It is also in a family friendly area, with good schools, a favorable housing market, and a climate...
View ArticleIs my family toxic? Worried about LO's birth (Long). Update + question 3
 Hi everyone,  I have been lurking on DWIL for a few weeks now and have started to realise things about my family. What I am wondering is if there are red flags coming up and if I should be wary...
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Am I being silly?
In the grand scheme of things my mother in law is not that bad. She is my BEC because she can be super passive aggressive. Ex. I asked her not to  use the sink because I'm recaulking it. She agrees...
View ArticleConcerned for Niece
I know that the usual protocol is 'not my circus, not my monkeys', and I'm fully prepared to do that if the consensus is that it's the right way forward. I guess I just wanted to check, and to see what...
View ArticlePie Pan MOO: UD We're out! 181, 190, 197, 200, 211, 220, 225
Original post on 10/06/15. Updates:2,3,7,8,10,12,14-20,24,26,27, 31, 34, 35, (trigger) 36, 38, car door 41, Pie pan 47, Christmas visit requests 61, 63,64, 68, text 71, side track friend 72-73, SIL 75,...
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Is it okay to send an e-mail of TAC to someone in a TO?
I don't want to get into a long background here, although I am happy to answer any questions, but right now I just don't have the energy. Anyway, I am wondering what the consensus is about e-mailing...
View ArticleResponding to Mom's indirect emails
Long time listener, first time caller. More BG than probably needed: -DH and I live across country from family, and have for several years. We have a 10 month old. -We stayed local for Xmas, but...
View Article"All I need is grandma" Update pg9
So I have some issues with MIL, I've posted on here before. She basically has baby rabies. The last time we went to visit LO was drooling so she went to her room and got some bibs that she bought (LO...
View ArticleIs MIL just my BEC? Would yours send condolence card to friends of yours who...
Yes, my MIL is very enmeshed with my husband. So she knows some of his/our friends. Anyway, friends of ours had to put their 7 year old dog to sleep. So, got a text from her to both of us asking for...
View ArticleWanted to go off on 80 yo aunt Update p8
It took everything in my willpower to not. I can't believe there are rude, selfish, disgusting people like her in this world. She was here for a week, booked a one way ticket to my area, expected me to...
View ArticleApparently it's my responsibility to take pic of MIL FM 7 UP 16
So MIL is a PITA and as a result I had her in a TO after my DD was born. We recently ended the time out, but I still hold a lot of resentment towards her. We did not go over there for Christmas...
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My CO mother
I've posted here before about my decision to CO my mother and my guilt over that. Last night I received a message on Facebook from my cousin and deleted it without even reading it. I told my husband...
View ArticleNeeding help with boyfriends family....
Alright so this is my first post here but, I was directed here by a friend to see if anyone can help. I recently moved in with my boyfriend and currently while trying to save up to get our own place......
View ArticleWe moved out! Now what? (Update 19,21,23,25, 27)
I mostly lurk on here, posted about my mother a couple of times, nothing super exciting. Dumb little boundary stomps. Unicorn dying a slow, painful death. Last summer my dad passed away very...
View ArticleDuH
I hope this is ok to post here- it's not in laws, it's my duh. I'm not a perfect mom but I'm trying my best. I'll be having a fine day until my husband gets home & he starts in. Yesterday he called...
View ArticleTold to come here... MIL issue
My MIL can be a hard pill to swallow.very pushy , critical and says anything and everything she feels. She hates when people act awkward, hates it if I don't serve my DH, not well dressed with makeup...
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Need your help! Update 10,14,35,49,51,62,63,65,66,72,73,86,90, 91
I had another thread but can't link as I am on mobile. My mom is not a very good person and very narcissistic. I have been trying to find ways to cut her off for awhile, it's hard when you feel bad...
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