Calls our unborn baby "it"

Every since they found out it's a girl they have been really rude. Before they said "him" or "the baby" but now it's "it".

Asked us where we are going to have it? I'm like wtf. And one night when it was family get together they all say and spoke about how disappointed they are that its not a boy. Even openly asked my husband how he feels about it being a girl. Now unfortunately he was drunk as he did want a boy but he's over that now, but you should of seen the satisfied glare my mil gave me...


I feel so sad about this. They haven't even asked to see our dvd of our baby even though they know we have it.