Feel bad for my DH :(
I got to hear the heartbeat at my appt Monday. My doctor was incredibly impressed and happy with it. I recorded it because DH couldn't be there, which he was actually really bummed about, but I sent...
View ArticleMil and 2-carded duh from my hospital bed
I'm sorry – I need help again. I two-carded my Dh yesterday and he chose therapy. Hopefully we will be able to go next week – I have a therapist that I vetted for us back in January but I am currently...
View ArticleWould you be annoyed by this gift or grateful?
I'm torn with feelings of irritation, but also the fact that I should just shut up and feel thankful that my daughters great grandparents bought her a swing set for her birthday. I would never make a...
View ArticleA long time coming UD pg 8
Ok DH and I have been together 9 years and married for 5. I've been stalking this page for a while now and it's helped me understand how important boundaries are. Unfortunately, DH and I had NEVER set...
View ArticleWe moved out! Now what? (Update 19,21,23,25, 27)
I mostly lurk on here, posted about my mother a couple of times, nothing super exciting. Dumb little boundary stomps. Unicorn dying a slow, painful death. Last summer my dad passed away very...
View ArticleMIL issues
I've been dealing with MIL issues for almost two decades. Time to get it out before I blow. Humor me.... We got along until we got engaged, then it became I'm taking her baby away, etc. Anyway, for...
View ArticleCalls our unborn baby "it"
Every since they found out it's a girl they have been really rude. Before they said "him" or "the baby" but now it's "it". Asked us where we are going to have it? I'm like wtf. And one night when it...
View ArticleHelp with how to NOT allow certain comments to trigger you
So I am still a relative newbie to this DWIL nation and have posted a few times about MIL issues and have received some amazing advice. I have realized that my MIL has become my BEC and I am trying to...
View ArticleHow would you feel? 4,7,12,UD16,Q19,34,54,82,88,95,96,115Recipes,127Tattoo,...
Let me preface this with I am an only child who is the primary caregiver to my parents. My mother has a brain injury and an underlying personality disorder that makes her difficult at best. My dad is...
View ArticleFuture MIL big problems
First, I want to remain anon because I am an active member of birth board, as is my future sister in law. I am here becasue I know you folks get to the point objectively, and you all don't...
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Evil MIL, Birthday Edition... (another longish post)
I just put up a big post about my MIL trying to hog first night of Passover (and Thanksgiving, etc) on the June Birth Board. I got a lot of great advice and support. They also pointed me toward you...
View ArticleBirthday Issues Update pg 3,4,5, Help 6
MIL regularly misses DS1's birthday party (he has had 3, 4th is coming up soon, she's been to one). She has not missed any of DS2's (just turned 2). I realize that she is INVITED not summoned, BUT DS1...
View Article#2 - Excluded from Rehearsal dinner - DH is best man (Page 7 & 12 &...
New thread, last one got too long. Thank you all for all your support and advice. I appreciate everyone who's been keeping up with the entire thread. I'm thankful for this group. I am sorry I haven't...
View ArticleBefore baby
My mom is very very controlling. I've read alot of these, but not finished. I decided I wanted just the father and I since this is my first time. I really don't know how it will go, so I want as much...
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I dont get it
My mother is here for 2 weeks while my DH is in residential PTSD treatment. She is an intelligent woman, was a doctor in Russia and is am RN now. But she does these absolutely hairbrained things. For...
View ArticleLetter to YDD from CO MOO, 2, 4, B-day VM 5, major new issue too,8
I've been a BBC member since July 2015 when I joined the birth board. After 35 years off bullshit, I CO my MOO in August 2015. A couple months later I follwed someone from my birth board to DWIL and...
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DH dropped the bomb, UD p. 7, debil letter p. 8, ON fallout p 12
Okay. Since our daughter was born in February, my inlaws have gone crazy. They were before too, but now DH and I can't ignore the behavior anymore because it will affect LO and that can't happen. I...
View ArticleOh ya know.. just another BSC MIL..
Ive been contemplating posting her for months but didnt feel like typing the entire story on my phone but ive decided that i needed some advice from people who are in similar situations as me so I...
View ArticleI feel myself sliding...5, Q 6, wedding 9, ud11, new spine 12,OT panic 17
maybe some of you gals remember me. my old account is on a defunct email address, and I can't remember my password. My Big Sis(BS) has been completely cut off for well over two years now, with no...
View Article#2 - Excluded from Rehearsal dinner - DH is best man (Page 7 & 12 &...
New thread, last one got too long. Thank you all for all your support and advice. I appreciate everyone who's been keeping up with the entire thread. I'm thankful for this group. I am sorry I haven't...
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