I'm engaged to be married next year to my best friend. We've been together for five years. I'm his first ever girlfriend, he's my third relationship. His parents and other family live in another state than we do. We dated for eight months then moved in together. He told me upfront that he seldom went home to visit his family. His parents divorced when he was 15. His mom remarried, and his stepfather is way younger than his mother, and in the same age category as her first born. My fiancé is her third child. He is 32. Her first child is 39, she is in her early 50's.
DF doesn't like going home much because of the relationship, and doesn't like what his hometown looks like. When we dated, he took me to visit his hometown twice, but he didn't carry me to his family home. We stayed at a hotel in the city and he just met up with friends. When we were three days away from leaving, he called family to let them know he was in town and wanted to know if they wished to meet up. It got bad because his mom called him asking why he would show up and not have the decency to visit her or his grandparents. He told her at the time he just didn't. He keeps a low private life and I respect it.
Moving in with him meant merging things to make our home like like an "us" instead of a him and her look. We got it done. Our first thanksgiving was spent with my parents. Christmas came, his brother asked if he was going home for the holidays. He said no. A new year came, and I got to see bigger things. He and his mom don't see eye to eye or have a personal communication level. She knows where we live, so one day I was home alone and got a call on the phone from her asking to speak with him. I told her he was at work. She said she was at the airport, her flight landed earlier, and was going to be staying at a hotel in the city and wanted him to visit her. This phone call was the first ever communication of any kind I had with her. She thought I was a new girlfriend as she had heard about me, but felt I was a new girl. She was so bold she even invited me over to have drinks and dinner with her. I told her I was going to pass the message along and he would get back to her. Her visit was for ten days. I gave him the message the same day. He waited until day 7 of her trip to contact her. She was angry he neglected her. She asked to meet up with us. He said ok. He told her a restaurant and time. She didn't want to. She wanted to have dinner at our place. He said ok. I cooked dinner and we waited. She came and we talked. She bad talked my cooking, she laughed at our home decor, and said it was strange we were playing house so fast. When talking, she told me she wasn't alone on the trip as her husband was back at the hotel. DF told her he didn't want to hear about him. Right then and there I got put on the spot. She asked me how I could let my man speak to his mother so cold. I told her I knew nothing of the situation so wasn't speaking on something I knew nothing of. they had words and she got a uber back to her hotel.
I got a friend request from her on facebook. I saw nothing wrong with having her on my facebook. Wrong. I went lurking her facebook and came across the timeline from when she was visiting us. She made a post saying that her son got hooked up with a doormat, he hates her husband and is training his doormat to hate her husband. She carried on saying I am being trained like a dog to hate his family, and have no common sense to wake him up and tell him he's a selfish pig for treating his mother and fmily like shit.
I was loss for words. I showed him the post and he said she's a wicked cunt, his words. He said ignore her.
I deleted her. She sent me a message asking why I deleted her. I told her what I saw and I was not going to be treated badly over a family issue that doesn't concern me, or would I tolerate being called names.
She apologized saying her words wer anger, and her son makes her bad side come out because he doesn't show her respect. She said he hates her for marrying her husband, and doesn't care for everything she did to make him have the life he has now. She told me that he refused to accept her engagement, never called on her wedding day, but when he had financial problems, called her about them and she gave him 10k over a few months. She told me he's selfish and wanted to act like he was a victim.
I blocked her.
Thanksgiving was approaching. She sent an invite. We didn't go. Christmas, same thing. I ended up pregnant with our son. She knew my due date from some malicious person. At seven months she came to visit unknowing to us. She went on a shopping spree and came to our home with baby stuff. DF accepted them. Three months later after birth, she came back to visit. She gave DF 2k cash saying it was for her grandson. DF took it. He let her do things with us until she went home. I was confused because the wicked cunt he called her, was no longer a cunt, but an ass he was kissing up to because of money. I spoke to him about it and he told me accepting her money is what makes them get along because she knows he's hates her guts. I told him he was a shithead.
For the person she is, I know she hates me. When we set the date invites were sent out. She wasn't invited. He doesn't want her there. She thinks I'm the one who doesn't want her or her husband there. She called me and called me a vindictive person becUse she thought I would have tried mending family troubles, and make her son be more accepting of her given the money she sends. What does she do? She sent him 3k in parts for our honeymoon. Now, he wants her to come with his grandmother, but her husband isn't allowed to come. I told her the money move was shitty, and she intentionally sent it to get invited. She told me I didn't do my job, and if her son has a weak wife, then they'll just have to live playing games for life.
I told him she's not coming anymore. He told me I'm on my own to figure out how to block her.
I'm sick of her .
DF doesn't like going home much because of the relationship, and doesn't like what his hometown looks like. When we dated, he took me to visit his hometown twice, but he didn't carry me to his family home. We stayed at a hotel in the city and he just met up with friends. When we were three days away from leaving, he called family to let them know he was in town and wanted to know if they wished to meet up. It got bad because his mom called him asking why he would show up and not have the decency to visit her or his grandparents. He told her at the time he just didn't. He keeps a low private life and I respect it.
Moving in with him meant merging things to make our home like like an "us" instead of a him and her look. We got it done. Our first thanksgiving was spent with my parents. Christmas came, his brother asked if he was going home for the holidays. He said no. A new year came, and I got to see bigger things. He and his mom don't see eye to eye or have a personal communication level. She knows where we live, so one day I was home alone and got a call on the phone from her asking to speak with him. I told her he was at work. She said she was at the airport, her flight landed earlier, and was going to be staying at a hotel in the city and wanted him to visit her. This phone call was the first ever communication of any kind I had with her. She thought I was a new girlfriend as she had heard about me, but felt I was a new girl. She was so bold she even invited me over to have drinks and dinner with her. I told her I was going to pass the message along and he would get back to her. Her visit was for ten days. I gave him the message the same day. He waited until day 7 of her trip to contact her. She was angry he neglected her. She asked to meet up with us. He said ok. He told her a restaurant and time. She didn't want to. She wanted to have dinner at our place. He said ok. I cooked dinner and we waited. She came and we talked. She bad talked my cooking, she laughed at our home decor, and said it was strange we were playing house so fast. When talking, she told me she wasn't alone on the trip as her husband was back at the hotel. DF told her he didn't want to hear about him. Right then and there I got put on the spot. She asked me how I could let my man speak to his mother so cold. I told her I knew nothing of the situation so wasn't speaking on something I knew nothing of. they had words and she got a uber back to her hotel.
I got a friend request from her on facebook. I saw nothing wrong with having her on my facebook. Wrong. I went lurking her facebook and came across the timeline from when she was visiting us. She made a post saying that her son got hooked up with a doormat, he hates her husband and is training his doormat to hate her husband. She carried on saying I am being trained like a dog to hate his family, and have no common sense to wake him up and tell him he's a selfish pig for treating his mother and fmily like shit.
I was loss for words. I showed him the post and he said she's a wicked cunt, his words. He said ignore her.
I deleted her. She sent me a message asking why I deleted her. I told her what I saw and I was not going to be treated badly over a family issue that doesn't concern me, or would I tolerate being called names.
She apologized saying her words wer anger, and her son makes her bad side come out because he doesn't show her respect. She said he hates her for marrying her husband, and doesn't care for everything she did to make him have the life he has now. She told me that he refused to accept her engagement, never called on her wedding day, but when he had financial problems, called her about them and she gave him 10k over a few months. She told me he's selfish and wanted to act like he was a victim.
I blocked her.
Thanksgiving was approaching. She sent an invite. We didn't go. Christmas, same thing. I ended up pregnant with our son. She knew my due date from some malicious person. At seven months she came to visit unknowing to us. She went on a shopping spree and came to our home with baby stuff. DF accepted them. Three months later after birth, she came back to visit. She gave DF 2k cash saying it was for her grandson. DF took it. He let her do things with us until she went home. I was confused because the wicked cunt he called her, was no longer a cunt, but an ass he was kissing up to because of money. I spoke to him about it and he told me accepting her money is what makes them get along because she knows he's hates her guts. I told him he was a shithead.
For the person she is, I know she hates me. When we set the date invites were sent out. She wasn't invited. He doesn't want her there. She thinks I'm the one who doesn't want her or her husband there. She called me and called me a vindictive person becUse she thought I would have tried mending family troubles, and make her son be more accepting of her given the money she sends. What does she do? She sent him 3k in parts for our honeymoon. Now, he wants her to come with his grandmother, but her husband isn't allowed to come. I told her the money move was shitty, and she intentionally sent it to get invited. She told me I didn't do my job, and if her son has a weak wife, then they'll just have to live playing games for life.
I told him she's not coming anymore. He told me I'm on my own to figure out how to block her.
I'm sick of her .