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Conflict with My Mother. SS pg2, UD pgs 3, 6&7, 9,11&15
My mother and I have general boundaries that she has been great at following. We had a transition period, 9 yrs ago, when I was newly married and had my oldest, and in the end she was forced to realize...
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I dont know what else to do! Update:P4
Im so over my MIL. we have too much back history to even put on here but I guess I have to give something so you have an idea of the shit im dealing with. Im 25, DH is 27, we have three kids (3,2,10...
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My mom has gone off the deep end, UD 65
UD's: 16, 18, 24, 31,32, 33, 36, 40, 46, 50, 53 , 56, 58, 59, 61 Seriously I'm so shocked with my mom but I guess I shouldn't be. About a month ago my mom asked if her and my brother could stay at my...
View ArticleWould this upset you or am I hormonal?
My father n law keeps calling my daughter (currently almost 26 weeks pregnant) HIS baby. And he does it over and over and stretches out and his tone gets all possessive when he says it. He says things...
View ArticleGma Shower
Mil had a gma shower. She loved her shower. I think it was inappropriate. Thoughts?
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Joint baby shower with a total stranger... Update pg 8
I am due in November, and my DH's grandmother (who is extremely sweet) approached me a few months back and asked if she and her sister (DHs great aunt) could host a baby shower for me. I agreed and was...
View ArticleI don't want houseguests
I've already posted this in my birth club but the girls there suggested that I try posting it here in DWIL as well. I'm pregnant with baby #1 and due November 30. DH and I both agreed on not having...
View ArticleMil and her obsessions with personalized voice messages bears
DD is three and loves teddy Bears. Mil bought her two Bears for her birthday last week. At her birthday party after opening mil gifts, DD started playing with the Bears. One started saying "nana loves...
View ArticleDONT COME WE ARE SICK
Me and my 2 week old baby somehow have a cold, all we are doing is nursing and sleeping . I'm half naked and my 2 year old looks a hot mess cause I have no strength to brush her hair or get her in...
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Updates!
I thought I'd just start a new thread, but here is my...um...storied past on here (HA): Earlist post: MIL/SIL giving me a hard time about "just having one"...
View ArticlePILs and the Almighty Penis!
Okay. I have some BG here, not sure how to link it on my phone. Not sure how much of it is even relevant. But I'm really sad for my DH, and have no idea how to help him without emoting for him or...
View ArticleMIL incompetent and hoarding
Sorry this is so long - here is some back story: I met my DH about 10.5 years ago – within the first few months of meeting him a bunch of stuff happened with his parents: When we first met he told me...
View ArticleMIL blow-up confrontation
Hello! I will give a little background and then share what has recently unfolded. Background: I have been married over 5 years and have been in a relationship with my husband for almost 7 years. We...
View ArticleWhat do you expect when they aren't expecting to expect
My half sister has lupus. She got pretty sick about 15 years ago, but has been in remission since then. After she got sick, she became VERY close with our mom and my step dad and they started doing...
View ArticleI'm going to be FMIL first DIL and she doesn't seem to like me
I'm engaged to be married next year to my best friend. We've been together for five years. I'm his first ever girlfriend, he's my third relationship. His parents and other family live in another state...
View ArticleXMIL and DS
Long time lurker, never posted before, just used info learned to set boundaries with my IL's and FOO (and feed my llama lol). I'm hoping posting this here will be okay as I love the advice you ladies...
View ArticleI don't want kids near BIL but, that'd forfeit all family gatherings EDIT: pg...
Dh comes from a large family, most of whom are awesome. 8 siblings, 7 are great with successful jobs and sweet families. But there's one brother that I just don't want around my kids. He's mentally...
View ArticleIt's about the dog, but it's not about the dog.
Have BG on here but am on mobile and can't link. Will once I get to my computer this afternoon. Basically my MIL is a boundary stomping emotional manipulator and since an incident in April has been CO...
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Am I a bad person for this?
I'm mainly a lurker, occasionally a poster. I'm going to try and keep this short. I'm on my phone so if paragraphs disappear or weird symbols show up please don't judge me lol! I think I just want...
View Article"scheduled visits" MIL UPDATE new auestion pg 6
So my MIL is one of those "for show" people who aren't really around very often but love to post all over fb what a good grandmother she is. She has always hated me, said I was white trash and didn't...
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