The "One Visit Per Week" IL Rule. Aka, I Must Hate ILs
Studious lurker since i got pregnant and found BBC last August or so. Went anon cuz my username is really identifiable. The advice for various posters has already helped me in various situations, but i...
View Articlemy pregnancy turned MIL into a boundry stomper UD 11, 20, 25, 35, 40, 46, 55,...
Once upon a time, my MIL was a really nice, caring woman who never boundry stomped, always gave us our space and respected our wishes. Then i got pregnant And shit hit the fan. She got super clingy and...
View Article*TRIGGER* I'm pregnant,Scared and need to announce
Background: I posted before about my Mil and being a absolute B----- while I was on bed rest with my son. She's the one who told my husband not to visit cause he can't do anything for our son anyways...
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OT: Where's Kimmy?
Now usually I wouldn't post an OT thread, but I feel that this needs to be said somewhere where everyone can see it. If the Queens disagree, I will be more than happy to delete it if they so wish. I...
View ArticleMy selfish in-law rant update page 3, 4
DW & I cut off SIL.. very many reasons. bil is in county jail waiting on his court case for 3 felonys. DW's ex bf is blocked on fb and all social media (& life) bc she cheated on me with him a...
View ArticleSIL Drama - Long and *trigger*
I've been lurking for a while and now have my own SIL drama I need advice on. It is long but it is all relevant and I feel like someone would ask for more detail anyway so just wrote my novel here....
View ArticleThey bought a house for us, but no thank you.(email pg 17)
I was told to come to this website due to my views on modern family dynamics when discussing my story with others on another forum. They thought I was too harsh and that DH's faaaaammilyyyy had meant...
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DHs eXMIL and eXW **TONS of NOMS** TRIGGERS THROUGHOUT
DH and I have lurked here for some time now, to look for ideas on how to deal with the BSC. But to no avail, we have not found anything as royally dysfunctional to compare. This will be long, so I'm...
View ArticleThere is no coming back from this.. Update page 27
Have you ever lost something in a fire? A house, a letter-â€something quite unintentional, but all the same completely gone when the smoke clears? Yeah that is what my family life feels like. At the...
View ArticleI have been played (... 12, 13, 16, 19, 22, 26, 34, 38, 46, 54, 56, 60, 64,...
DH's youngest sister is 22 years younger than him. Their father died many years ago and DH has been more of a father figure to her. She is a narcissist of the highest order. She is also...
View ArticleShe Thinks I Can Be Bought. Cheap. UD 12
So, my birthday was yesterday. MIL had told Wolf that she'd sent a card, 'just for Imp!' I haven't talked to MIL in 18 mths. I'm calling it ITO, rather than a CO, since Wolf talks to her a cpl of times...
View Article"We can't go away cuz we're your family"
Said my 4 year old to my 2 year old, after her request to "Go way!" All I could think about was how my 2 year old may be needing DWIL in 20 years! (Sure hope it's still around!) :-D
View ArticleNormal to feel bad after initiating ITO?
It's been a bit since I last posted; and things have just gotten worse. I like to think I successfully navigated the waters of dealing with my CO brother; but now I have a whole new bag of crazy to...
View ArticleMy mother part 1, update page 2-15,20-23,29,31-33,38,40,42,49,51,56
Where do I even begin?... I'm 18 years old and I've been keeping everything bottled up since birth about what I've had to go through, so here it goes. I encourage you to read because it is an...
View ArticleNeed some serious advice on SOs mother *long*
We recently moved back in with SO mother because she is not financially stable and we would like to help her with her bills as well as save up for a house of our own, as we were previously renting. Her...
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Crazy Aunt and LO. What to do going forward?
Hi ladies. I have posted here before but this post's content doesn't really touch on that BG. I do lurk quite a lot and I know what to expect, have read the Sticky etc. This will be long - I can post...
View Articlemy pregnancy turned MIL into a boundry stomper UD 11, 20, 25, 35, 40, 46, 55,...
Once upon a time, my MIL was a really nice, caring woman who never boundry stomped, always gave us our space and respected our wishes. Then i got pregnant And shit hit the fan. She got super clingy and...
View ArticleHow to handle running into CO Mom who doesn't accept CO- TRIGGER
Hi Ladies, I have been following this board close to three years, but went anon a few months ago. I'm not a big poster, but you ladies (and few men) are lovely and have helped me immensely! I'm...
View ArticleI, gatekeeper
I have become the gatekeeper to my son. Background: not much on DWIL. This isn't my original name, I switched to one a little more anonymous for the purposes of making it hard(er) to find / connect...
View Articlemy mother in law is so bossy
My mother in law man , this woman has planned a family visit her sister and nephew to come stay with her but the will be coming to my house all 3 days they have been planning this trip all summer and...
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