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Is it me or them?? Long :( Update - pg 12
Hi guys, I really need some advise on how to deal with a very overbearing MIL. I know my story is probably not as bad as others have it but I have kept my feelings bottled up too long and need to know...
View ArticleHoliday gifts from CO family members
So I've had to CO a lot of family members including my moo and two soo's. (Foo would also be co but has passed away). I have an 11 year old son who knows these family members and some live in the same...
View ArticleHELP!! What is our next move dealing with psycho MIL and FIL??
***Trying to keep it short. Moms on my birth board said you ladies would be able to help us with this.**** My husband and I have been married for 5 years next month. I have known since the first...
View Articlegrandma playing mommy. Small update pg 8, BAD pg10, mini pg 14, GPR page 17,...
Please help us!!! Long story short (or at least I'll try) my boyfriend and I live with his mom and husband along with their two daughters. We're all young adults (23 years and up) My boyfriend and I...
View ArticleWedding invitation from ITO Brother-in-law, update 6
I have a little background here. My husband has two brothers: the youngest has a personality disorder of some sort and we will never speak to him again. The middle brother was a friend of ours until he...
View ArticleDWIL and the Holiday Harpies
Okay, so due to some serious insomnia I have been spending my evenings devouring all the L&D and epic threads of DWILS and it seems that the only thing that gets people as rilled up as someone...
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CO MIL guilt trip. UD and noms 12 - We're Done
UD 4, 6 - more guilt! Non UD 7. New Q 8. DuH 10 I have BG under a different account name - needed to change for better identity protection. I'm mobile so will link in comments. Gist is: Narc MIL has...
View ArticleHelp respond to Narc MIL text -Responded Update 6 DH 7
Tldr; MIL is a narc/ pill popper that claims to be sober. It all comes down to blatant disrespect towards me and obvious jealously that I married her only son. DH insisted on CTJ one month ago and...
View ArticleMIL practically next door, doesn't stop to visit
Ok. Starting out I am not going to give any BG on this bc I'm looking for unbiased analysis of this one incident today. If more BG is requested I can update. Around 5:30pm DUH says his childhood friend...
View ArticleAm I a jerk or is MIL being difficult?
I know my MIL is my BEC so I'm coming here to see if I'm a jerk or if she's being difficult. MIL asks to take my kids every once In a while. We pick a date and a couple days later she emails me letting...
View ArticleEverything must revolve around my mother.
I posted last year right before I gave birth that my mother tried to make the whole thing about her. We lived in different states and despite not talking to each other went and told everyone who would...
View ArticleBIL's BIL
I lurk this board frequently and after reading so much advice I'm trying to shine my spine and develop more/better boundaries. I am reading nice girl syndrome right now and the boundaries book will be...
View ArticleNew here and I've messed up
My MIL problems have gotten crazy and a friend sent me here. I've been lurking for a few days, made an account today, and based on what I'm reading here I think I've messed up big time. DH and I have...
View Articlemom is ruining my daughters big sister experience
I posted this in another forum but it seems more appropriate here. I will begin by saying i love my mother. I will follow that by adding i am a very forgiving and patient person. I am 25 and 15 weeks...
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Guilted and gaslit by the Escape Goat. UD 3,4,6,7
Relevant info: I'm a long time lurker on these boards and I thought I had a handle on things. My sister is also a member on here and may chime in. She lives 5 mins from my mom while I am an hour and...
View ArticlePlease help!
My previous posts were probably deleted on request which is why i cannot find them. But to all who might remember me, i need your help explaining to DH why everything is going downhill and how to make...
View ArticleCO a child??
So I have lurked for a long time on here but today pushed me to make an account and post. I am 11 weeks pregnant and I have an 8 year old sister. I knew from the beginning that she wouldn't be happy...
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MIL Guilting Me At 40 Weeks Pregnant
Hello everyone. Long time lurker, and working to build up my mama bear for my daughter who’s due date was yesterday. (Please come out soon!!!) My MIL and I are similar in the fact that we are both...
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Crazy mom, kinda long. (triggers) Update p.2, 3, 4, 6, 8, 10, 11, 16, 17, New...
I don't even know where to start. I'm in shock this morning and I don't know how to handle this situation. I mean, I'm pretty sure I know what I need to do, but I'm trying to understand and process it...
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Trying to Avoid Holiday Drama- Need Advice! UPDATE pg 7,14, new summons email 15
Here is my BG that I have posted on here about my Dad's wife: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a63089305/boundary-stomping-smom-demanding-to-be-at-birth-ud-5-10-16-18-30-33-36-40-5778 For those who...
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