grandma playing mommy. Small update pg 8, BAD pg10, mini pg 14, GPR page 17,...
Please help us!!! Long story short (or at least I'll try) my boyfriend and I live with his mom and husband along with their two daughters. We're all young adults (23 years and up) My boyfriend and I...
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Background: My inlaws are usually ok but overbearing. I married their oldest early this year after dating for nearly 5 years. I'm 5 years older than him (I'm 28, he's 23) but mil treats us like...
View ArticleNo contact with MIL
Does anyone on here have no contact with their MIL? What is it like for you and your husband and possibly your kids? I am just curious because that might be what I have to do...
View ArticleMIL Entitlement
Before I start I will acknowledge that I have allowed this to happen...now I want some advice on how to reverse it. And this post got a lot longer than I had expected. DF and I have been together for 8...
View ArticleCan't articulate why. UD 8
I have one background post re my MIL (SO and I are not married but for ease I will call her MIL). Brief rundown, MIL pushed me in to the road and took the pushchair from me, then wandered off with the...
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I have the Golden Child update pg 3, 4, 7, 1, 13, need help with MOO pg 16
Is favortism an automatic TO or do you send a text saying "You're showing favortism it needs to stop." and then give the TO? At this point I'm not willing to give more chances at the risk of my DD even...
View ArticleSocial media and in laws
One of the first things my husband and I agreed on after we got pregnant was NO pictures in social media sites. We absolutely have not changed our minds and our LO is 4 months old now. But, not even 24...
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SIL RANT
I'm really just posting because I have no one to talk to other than my mother and I'm sure she's sick of hearing about my WONDERFUL (sarcasm) sister in law. Here's a little bit about her, she's 32 with...
View ArticleEmail from Sis. Not sure how to respond. Txt msg pg 11
I have a previous post about my younger sister where I basically dropped the rope until she reached out to me because I was unsure if she wanted a relationship with me. Well,she has reached out, but...
View ArticleI gave my mom too much freedom pre and post pregnancy
Excuse any grammatical errors as in holding my one month old baby girl with a feeding. I need to get things out and lok for advice on what to do. I had my daughter in September. I live in ith DH on one...
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Difficulty dealing with StepFather Updates: 4,5,7,12 Big Scary Work Tantrum
I really need some advice on how to deal with my pushy stepfather (SF). It’s an issue that’s really hurt my heart for awhile and is becoming a major PITA. Here’s some background for you to help...
View ArticleWhat can I do different? So this doesn't happen again?
So two days ago was our LO's baptism. Originally it was just supposed to be his godparents, my parents, and my MIL. My mother went and invited the rest of the family (which is huge!) without asking me....
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Recently CO aunt, guilt tripping grandma, and the holidays *trigger
Tl;dr: my aunt is CO for recently bringing up my sexual assault when I was 15 and blaming me for it. Grandma backs her up. I always have holidays at my grandma's and aunt will be there. Do not want to...
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I have the Golden Child update pg 3, 4, 7, 1, 13, text with MOO pg 20 Duh...
Is favortism an automatic TO or do you send a text saying "You're showing favortism it needs to stop." and then give the TO? At this point I'm not willing to give more chances at the risk of my DD even...
View ArticleLet me hold my baby!
FTM here. Just had a baby in July! I'm going back to work after being on maternity leave for 13 weeks in a few days. Every time I take baby to an event- (party/wedding/baby shower) my MIL asks to hold...
View ArticleI have a backbone!
Hi all, So I've just emailed my parents to let them know that I wont tollerate ill-treatment towards my nuclear family, so I have no choice but to TO. *I chose to email them as I don't wish to have any...
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MIL Guilting Me At 40 Weeks Pregnant
Hello everyone. Long time lurker, and working to build up my mama bear for my daughter who’s due date was yesterday. (Please come out soon!!!) My MIL and I are similar in the fact that we are both...
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The Funkle who cried Fishbowl- small update/ texts and emails 46,47.
For starters: I fractured my shoulder 6 days ago. I am unable to do anything, even basically childcare for my kids (3 and 1) for 8 weeks. No picking them up, driving, changing diapers, etc as my...
View ArticleHow to show DuH he's the product of emotional incest?
I have another thread here regarding my narc MIL. After a pretty heated text exchange, I have cut her off indefinitely. Since then I've been reading both Toxic In-Laws, and Emotional Incest Syndrome....
View ArticleMIL losing her mind, how do I deal (DH in rehab)?
Background: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a64287985/dh-in-rehab-called-his-parents-to-help-me?cpg=1 There's more background linked there too. But basically my DH is in rehab for a drug...
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