MIL and Grandparents "Rights"
Okay, I'm writing this because I need opinions on what to do in our current situation.A bit of history: I've been with DH for 6 years. We have 3 y/o and 9 m/o boys. Prior to getting pregnant, my MIL...
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View ArticleI've tried being nice. I'm done.
From September 2015 Birth Club I've tried being nice. I'm about to let my hormones take over. Mikkisr Hide original post Posted 33 mins ago So you might remember me posting about my MIL bitching...
View Articlefavoritism
I've been noticing some favoritism from my MIL and I was wondering how to approach the topic with her.
View ArticleMIL gave my baby YOGURT
She gave her strawberry today and yesterday she gave her banana! Wth????? I told her multiple times no no no but she doesn't listen all she has to say is "it's good for her!" And "it's only yogurt!"...
View ArticleCan someone explain signs of "trainable" to me?
I sometimes see posters refer to a MIL as "trainable". Can someone help me with signs of what that looks like? I will give you an example of my situation. MIL pushed to join us for the last 3-4 days...
View ArticleHelp me to understand/what to say (mil babysitting)
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View ArticleInvasive family *trigger*
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View ArticleThey bought a house for us, but no thank you.(email pg 17,tidbit pg 28)
I was told to come to this website due to my views on modern family dynamics when discussing my story with others on another forum. They thought I was too harsh and that DH's faaaaammilyyyy had meant...
View ArticleMIL instigating DIL *Situation*
Situation : A ( Wife) feels B (Husband) is cheating on her but B is Not. B's Mom is convincing A that her fears are genuine because she is not very fond of A. B has done everything to convince A that...
View ArticleStopping Weekly Visits-She texted back P.11 Vacation text p.32 Cat tombstone...
Hi. I am new to BabyCenter. I was referred her by a real life friend after talking to her about my MIL problem. I have read the "sticky" and read a lot of posts all day yesterday so I think I have the...
View ArticleMilitary homecoming is final straw UD9, 22
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View ArticlePILs and DH have separation anxiety
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View ArticleSIL excited? Update 1? Email sent 7 Pg 9 half update 16 rest on 18
Very new here was recommended by a friend. I have read a few posts, I appologize if I mess up the lingo. I have one DD who is 13 months and am pregnant with #2 in January with DS. I have been with DH...
View ArticleMIL's favoritism is hurting my sons
DH and I have been married for 3 years and have three kids. Two boys and a girl. One boy is from my first marriage, the other is from DH's first marriage. He has sole custody of his son. Both boys are...
View Articlefeeling overwhelmed.6 upd pg 9, 13, 27, ? Pg 28, 31, 39 47, 49, q pg 52, Long...
My hubby and I have been married 6 years. We have three children, so far! We just moved 4 hours away from our hometown where both of our families live. We are currently driving there every other...
View ArticleMIL gave my baby YOGURT
She gave her strawberry today and yesterday she gave her banana! Wth????? I told her multiple times no no no but she doesn't listen all she has to say is "it's good for her!" And "it's only yogurt!"...
View ArticleMy mother UD2-15,20-23,29,31-33,38,40,42,49,51,56,59-60,70,83, 119 - I'M...
Where do I even begin?... I'm 18 years old and I've been keeping everything bottled up since birth about what I've had to go through, so here it goes. I encourage you to read because it is an...
View ArticleTough Love, I'm her retirement plan 3, UD 6, 12, 13
I'm not new. Thanks for reading. DH and I have spent a lot of effort in our 15 year relationship dealing with family, developing healthy boundaries and expectations, particularly with MIL- as is so...
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