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How to deal with ex MIL
So a little BG: After my ex and I split, his mother was somewhat cordial to me at first. She has only asked to see LO once so far, but she would text/call every now and then to check in. I've never...
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I am a lurker and anon for this. DH and I have been married for four years and have an 18 month old baby girl. When we started our lives, DH came to live with me in my house as his place was a bachelor...
View ArticleCOing OBro, p 3 5 6 7 8 12 13 14 17 20 22, email help p24
I have been lurking here for a little while and would love some advice but am not good at putting my thoughts into words so please bear with me. I want to CO my OBro (3 yrs older) and his family but...
View ArticleI think MIL might be a flying monkey!! Help!! Update 3
Background: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a57212374/nicknames_update_56791115_triggerno_update_17 Current Issue: We have not had any contact with YSIL since everything happend and nothing from...
View ArticleIs this normal and I'm just crazy?
It drives me crazy! My IL are constantly trying to get my baby's attention when I'm playing with her or talking to her. It makes me mad and makes me want to cry that they try to draw her attention to...
View ArticleMIL calls me paranoid upd pg 20
Hi everyone, got told by my group to come to your board. I've been married for a year and we have a 4 month old baby girl. We live with my DH parents. He has gone back to work and I too as well....
View ArticleWhat to do next regarding MIL? phone call update pg1
Hey y'all, I had this whole thing typed up and accidentally deleted most of.it. so condensed version. Background, my MIL isnt into my Dh unless it's veteran's day or she can.play moty/gmoty. She's also...
View ArticleMom needs some boundaries UPDATE pg 5
A little background.... My mom and I have a difficult past of her berating, belittling, and smacking me around in my teens. We have a "normal" relationship now for the most part. She has made a lot of...
View ArticleCO mom or stay as is?
So sorry for this long post! A little background, my adopted family and I moved to the U.S 15yrs ago from Nigeria. My moo adopted me from the Motherless Home that she managed. She was physically,...
View ArticleGrandparents Day
Grandparents day is Sunday, and I wanted to see what plans folk had. I took Mothers Day this year. I didn't go to see my mom or MIL (DH didn't go see his mom either because if he went to see his, I'd...
View ArticleMIL not letting my DF grieve **triggers** update p7, 9; I'm done 10; Facebook...
I've been a lurker and didn't think I'd ever have to post, but here I am. I need advice on how to handle this situation with my MIL. Really, I need advice on how to support my DF, as it is his mother...
View ArticleMil will not leave me alone
some background Hubby and I have dated since we were 13/14 our parents have been good friends since we were like 6/7 and gone to dinner together weekly forever. We have been married 5 years we went...
View ArticleBEC MIL and D(u)H *triggers*
I've typed this up several times and ended up deleting it after rugsweeping the issues with my DH. I started lurking DWIL due to issues with my MIL, and after reading for the past year, I know that a...
View ArticleEx IL's won't leave me alone p3
I wonder if they just sit around to think of new ways to bug me. Got a call from ex MIL asking for the death trap cradle she forced on me when pregnant with ODD. She is saying Her daughter is pregnant...
View ArticleI can't do it anymore!!!!
Ok so here's some back story my MIL lost her youngest son (33) and retired last summer. She lives 1200 miles away. Well since then she has been here soo much oct-dec, jan-April, now August and...
View ArticleNo Means No, MIL. No Means No.
I swear to god, my MIL doesn't understand the word no if she doesn't want to hear it. DH and I just got married in July and found out we were pregnant in August. The last time I went to the gyno, it...
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Thought I had MIL trained. UD 5, BSC 8, 15, 21& noms, 25? NonUD 32, Q33,...
Long time lurker, occasional commenter, I've gone anon because family members. Well versed with the Sticky To set the scene, my now-turned duh and I live in a seasonal tourist trap. Summer is a very...
View ArticleGrandparents day? P5. Ex IL's won't leave me alone p3
I wonder if they just sit around to think of new ways to bug me. Got a call from ex MIL asking for the death trap cradle she forced on me when pregnant with ODD. She is saying Her daughter is pregnant...
View ArticleCodependent MOO "I'm not codependent- my mom said so!" UD pg 2, 5, 6, 8, xmas...
So I've posted about my mom before. The old post wasn't directly about the way she's treated me but its relevant info anyways and can be found here: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a57759877/...
View ArticleThe "One Visit Per Week" IL Rule. Aka, I Must Hate ILs --UD 7, 11; ?-11, 15;...
Studious lurker since i got pregnant and found BBC last August or so. Went anon cuz my username is really identifiable. The advice for various posters has already helped me in various situations, but i...
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