MIL smothering me
Anon lurker. Background I married DH in 2013. He has two kids. He shares custody with his ex wife. They have two boys. He is 40 and I am 28. Last year we suffered a miscarriage when I was 13 wks 4...
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MIL trying to take over DD birthday.
So My DD turns two in October and we are having a new baby on Wednesday. Due to having a c section I didn't want to do a big thing for DD birthday and just keep it something small at home. MIL keep...
View ArticleOh no, what have I done?
Well, I went and did something monumentally stupid. I broke my leg last Sunday, and while in the er, DH asked if he could call his parents and tell them before they saw it on Facebook. (We were at a...
View ArticleMIL boundaries
Okay so DH or DuH and I have started the whole boundaries thing with MIL. I have talked to DH and made him see how he gives our DD up to keep his mom happy. I told him that I do not care for the...
View ArticleBean dip fail. I caused IL chaos
Hi! So I have BG here with a Duh that is on the path to become a DH. My MIL is my BEC but also a very manipulative, at times toxic person. I limited my time around here and it worked pretty well. Now...
View ArticleWould it hurt you...
If your mother told you that having a child (you) had completely ruined her life? Part of me is hurt and pissed that she would say that, the other part thinks I am an adult, she's being honest about...
View ArticleTrying do get on same page with DuH. Setting rules for visitors with new...
Okay, I have a mean, P/A, and generally BSC MIL. My husband is a DuH, but honestly if she were my mom, I would be too. She's scary. His way of "dealing" with her is to be silent when she's stomping...
View ArticleIn-laws and social media..where do you stand?
So I'm scrolling on Instagram and I see a picture that looks just like my baby. Wait a second, that is my baby! Cuddled up with my SIL in a photo taken 3 weeks ago. The caption is something like "rest...
View ArticleMom disowned me
please make me feel better and that i'm not alone in this. my mom disowned me after we had an argument. Long story short: She lies straight to your face, hints at you instead of coming out and just...
View ArticleIs there a nice way to ask for certain Christmas gifts?
We've recently had some boundary issues with DH's family, but we've managed to draw a line in the sand and say this is the way it's going to be, it's our choice, done (thanks a lot to this forum for...
View ArticleFinally.
Happy to say that FIL and MIL are officially CO and DH has my back 100 percent. It took a Debil rant and them ruining every birth, holiday and birthday for the last 5 1/2 years. Should we notify them...
View ArticleOverreacting? Mil and the debil - Update pg 10- need more advice
I have only posted twice and you can read more background with in laws there. Since I was pregnant I was treated like an incubator, no questions about pregnancy baby or anything. All questions were to...
View ArticleInvasive family *trigger* UD pg14
Same old story of the long time lurker first time poster. I changed my screen name for more anonymity since my original one was too identifying. My 4 year old daughter has been sick for a little while...
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team Pink! **Update 121, 141, 153, 157, 163, 164, 167, 172, 176, 187, 201, 213PP
Updates: 13,16,20,23,29,39,41,43,44, 52-letter from MIL, 77,79,91,96,97,102,105,113,116,117, 121, 141, 153, 157, 163, 164, 167 I posted this originally in my Oct 15 Birthclub but wanted to repost...
View Articleselfish FMIL
im 24 and DF is 30. We have a two year old DS and expecting a baby in February. We were planning to marry in April next year. My parents contributed 5k and my future in laws put forward 5k too. DF and...
View ArticleMom needs some boundaries UPDATE pg 5 and 9
A little background.... My mom and I have a difficult past of her berating, belittling, and smacking me around in my teens. We have a "normal" relationship now for the most part. She has made a lot of...
View ArticleHelp explaining to MOO how manipulation with money and guilt work so I can...
Hey so, my mom often uses money as a manipulation tactic. She'll drop comments about how much she spent and how it put her out so much, and boo hoo she lent this person money and they still haven't...
View ArticleMother Called Ex to Get Me In-Line UD [Listed in OP] || Most recent: 60
Updates: 3, 4, 8, 11, 13, 14, 16, 23, 25, 28, 30, 32, 35, 37, 39, 41, 45, 50, 52 Puppy Pics, 54, 55, 59, 60 Standard: Long time lurker, new account, read sticky and I know what to expect. Background:...
View ArticleSIL sent CO MIL a video of DS
Hey Dwillers, I debated about coming back to post because last time included some contraversal topics and it didn't feel right. Background contains triggers** Basically, we CO MIL a little over a...
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team Pink! **Update 222
Updates: 13,16, 20, 23, 29, 39, 41, 43, 44, 52-letter from MIL, 77, 79, 91, 96, 97, 102, 105, 113, 116, 117, 121, 141, 153, 157, 163, 164, 167, 187, 201, 213, 222. I posted this originally in my Oct...
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