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MIL Update! New UD pg 5!
I'm sorry, I'm not sure how to add previous posts in a link on her from my phone.. So I'll keep the background as short as possible. MIL is an alcoholic and drug addict. We gave her 5 months of my...
View ArticleDo I really owe them at the expense of my sanity? (LONG)
I wanted to wait and post this after making a new account because I was afraid they would somehow find me, but after the nonsense that went down today I really can't be bothered to care. Trigger: small...
View ArticleDH invited MIL for Thanksgiving - Advice needed
Hi ladies. Just some backstory: MIL has visited the past two Thanksgivings, and has brought drama each time. She outright disrespects me, more so when DH is not around, so that she can play victim if I...
View ArticleBlouses!! 3, 5, 8, 10, 13, 18, 21, 22, 23, 24, 27, 31, 32, 35, 36, 40 Summary...
I fear I am not handling things well. My mom is narcisissitic, however, not as bad as some others I see on these boards. Despite being told what a horrible daughter I am I usually try to give my...
View Articlemil just told my co moo my due date pg20, 24 fil text dh, 25, 27, 44squish is...
Please excuse grammar and lack of flow I'm seeing red right now. (And honestly I suck at grammar anyways :'( ) so short story: my moo is co 2 years now. (I have bg on here with the whys). Mil knows...
View ArticleWhat's so bad about parents staying with you after you give birth?
Someone pointed out this board from the marriage and relationship board. Anyway, I posted to get advise on that board about arranging a first time meeting between my parents and my husband. We've been...
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Ugh can't hardly stand this woman anymore!
My mil is CONSTANTLY up my ass about something and I feel like all she does is JUDGE JUDGE JUDGE then gossip about anything and everything with my SIL and probably anyone else who will listen! And of...
View ArticleTattoo for my child *trigger* *more info pg 3* UPDATE pg 11
I have made a throwaway for this issue. I had a child that passed away shortly after birth. A relative (not immediate family) told me they are getting a tattoo in my LO's memory. I was not comfortable...
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Response Advice to Annoying Question
Long time lurker here. I've never posted before, but you ladies have helped me tons. Mostly by teaching me that "No." is a full sentence and to recognize that my MIL was boundary stomping (because I...
View ArticleHaving MIL stay with me after baby born. Good idea?
Hi everyone. Really looking for honest and open minded advice. I'm a FTM and my DH works constantly. His travel for work is planned, and he has a trip around my EDD. Not wanting to miss it (the trip)...
View ArticleMom feels like an InLaw (terminally ill)
I was told about this group in my Birth Group after I posted about my mom being entitled. She has always had personality issues, so I expect pregnancy to be nothing less. She has good days and bad...
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Do I rugsweep for 3 months? Long.
This is so long, I’m sorry. There’s a years of pent up shit here.My husband and I are Canadian, have been together for almost 4 years, married 3 months. I have three daughters from a previous...
View ArticleWriting email to my mom, help! Updates: (trigger) 36, 38, Approach at car 41
Updates:2,3,7,8,10,12,14-20,24,26,27, 31, 34, 35 My mom is my BEC and certain things she does really get to me. I can't figure out if she fits the profile for any of the personality disorders, she has...
View ArticleMIL response to me not wanting visitors postpartum was appalling. help.
My birth plan is simple. I don't want visitors during birth and postpartum at least for a couple Days so dh and I can do bonding time. I feel There will be plenty of family time later after he's born...
View ArticleBlouses!! 3, 5, 8, 10, 13, 18, 21, 22, 23, 24, 27, 31, 32, 35, 36, 40 Summary...
I fear I am not handling things well. My mom is narcisissitic, however, not as bad as some others I see on these boards. Despite being told what a horrible daughter I am I usually try to give my...
View ArticleMIL insists on "mixer games" at family events
My MIL is my BEC but really not *that bad*, especially by DWIL standards. I'm seeking input on how to handle this issue without it blowing up because she is extremely sensitive and is a crier....
View ArticleFMIL doesn't think I'm good enough family because im double barreling my name
I'm getting married soon, and pregnant at the same time. Sunday, I told my FSIL I was double barreling my name. She asked me because her brother had written my name with double barrel. FMIL saw and...
View ArticleHoliday time splitting disagreements with DH
Sorry in advance for the length of this post. I'm a lurker of several months and hope DWIL can help me with an ongoing issue. Holidays have been a point of contention for DH and I since we got...
View ArticleSIL is... Obsessive? New Q 22
I have a few years background with my in laws. DH and I have cut them all off, except my one SIL who I always had a great relationship with. I have 2 SIL, 1 BIL, PILs are divorced and despise each...
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