Collateral damage?
My SOO is very abusive. I have not spoken to her for many months. She found out some information about me through our mother. She is now sending abusive text messages to both me and my DH. I don't...
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Crushed and need help
First time poster/long time lurker. Had some major SIL issues that took the back burner to infertility issues. BG my in laws are sweet. Really, they are good people. They are old and act as little...
View ArticleThanksgiving drama-rama, BG added pg 1, help with text 2, hissy fit response 5
Ugh - a bit sad to be posting here, but could use some advice/wisdom on how I did and where to go from here. (I have background that I can link later; semi-related.) Setup: DH and I are hosting T-day...
View ArticleOverbearing MOO
Sorry if this is long and all over the place, I'm scatter brained but I'll do my best! SO and I have been together for three years, and have a six month old LO. We are young (early twenties) and we're...
View Articlebirthday summons the final straw (narc FIL) **triggers** 15 FIL VM-- action...
Long time lurker that occasionally comments. I have one other thread on DWIL that has helped me navigate issues with my FSM and dad (ITO for a few months that at this point in time see turning into a...
View ArticleDepl. drama Pt. 4, UD 6, 12, 22. message AIL
First off, thanks Queenie, you rock! The letter is out for delivery now. 95% of me is thinking excellent, 5% is oh fuck. Once it is marked as delivered, H will also send the letter via email, so there...
View ArticleBlouses!! 3, 5, 8, 10, 13, 18, 21, 22, 23, 24, 27, 31, 32, 35, 36, 40 Summary...
I fear I am not handling things well. My mom is narcisissitic, however, not as bad as some others I see on these boards. Despite being told what a horrible daughter I am I usually try to give my...
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The dresden appreciation thread
Where we appreciate that dresden is not currently serving out a prison sentence, taking a restful vacation in an asylum, or living off grid in a nation that does not have an extradition treaty with her...
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Thanksgiving drama. Pushy MIL.
I am a first time poster here and have seen you guys give great advice. A little background, MIL and I used to get along until I got pregnant. She then went BSC. She had a temper tantrum about the name...
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Funny and basically harmless noms
Mil asked DH today if he knocked up his girlfriend in high school. (We are mid-30's.) It's been weighing on her heart all this time. (She literally told him "this is a weight off my heart.") She...
View ArticleWriting email to my mom, help! Updates: Approach at car 41, baked goods 47!
Updates:2,3,7,8,10,12,14-20,24,26,27, 31, 34, 35, (trigger) 36, 38. My mom is my BEC and certain things she does really get to me. I can't figure out if she fits the profile for any of the personality...
View ArticleAunt is FM for Thanksgiving
I got a call and it showed my cousin number so I answered it as she is living 3 hours away at school. It was my aunt she starts on small talk then ask "does your family like a lot of bread with...
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Every holiday...
Every holiday is dreaded because DH feels like he's forced to pick. His family who hates my guts always blows up his phone and asks him to come over. DH always says Well just be staying home doing...
View ArticleBEC MIL - Thanksgiving Drama Edition - new question pg 7 - UD, she responds!
I know y'all will notice my fancy new anon account, but I decided to go away from my lurker status and create an account I do not need to worry about being traced back to me. Here we go! My MIL is my...
View ArticleMIL has just started a war- Update page 134 text from SMIL
Updates: 7, 9, 10, email 11, 15, 20, 21, 22, 23, 27, 28, 30, 32, 35, 36, 37, 42, 52, 54, 55, 57, 60, 62, 63, 66, 67, 69x2, 72, 83, 85, 86, 90, 92, 98, 102, 134 First time poster, long time stalker of...
View ArticlePost your Holiday Noms
I think we did this last year, it was easy to keep track of the noms. Anyone?
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MIL Update! New UD pg 5 11
I'm sorry, I'm not sure how to add previous posts in a link on her from my phone.. So I'll keep the background as short as possible. MIL is an alcoholic and drug addict. We gave her 5 months of my...
View ArticleMIL problems...UD 6, 8, 11 the talk,14 DWIL was right, 15 noms,18,19,20 ex...
Hi, I have posted before but wasn't ready to listen to the advice. Now reality has hit me in the face. I've been with DF for 2 years now. We have a beautiful 6 month DD. In the beginning I like MIL....
View ArticleDH invited MIL for Thanksgiving - Advice needed
Hi ladies. Just some backstory: MIL has visited the past two Thanksgivings, and has brought drama each time. She outright disrespects me, more so when DH is not around, so that she can play victim if I...
View ArticleHelp with MIL
My in laws live in MI, we live in CO. My mil will not get off my back about sending my 11 month old out to stay with her for a month. He is still nursing. I have told her not until he's older. She is...
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