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MIL Coming for two days after LO is born...
So at Christmas my MIL cornered me and asked me if she could come and "help" for two days after DS is born. I said, "Maybe, I'll think about it. I guess so." Well that ment yes to her. So now she is...
View ArticleSo my DH's family doesn't matter...??
My mom's bday is next weekend, my DH's niece and nephew also have their bdays around the same time. We are driving 5 hours one way to go see my mom for her bday and plan on going to the kids' bday...
View ArticleDo we respond or BH or what? Updates 7, 11, 13, 21, 27
In December, my DH sent his parents a short letter stating, We are in the process of creating and enforcing healthy boundaries for our family. The following are items that are of importance to us. Do...
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What do I do with this
My dad's birthday was a couple days ago. I called in the morning and left a message. I meant to call that evening but I forgot and called two days later. He was nice on the phone but I felt guilty...
View ArticleHis family vs. my family
My SO and I had a great relationship until the birth of our 1st son. While I was in labor at 32w his mom called both of us nonstop and I was annoyed. He never told her to back off even though I asked...
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please read and tell me if
ifit s time to cut him out of our lives. Df is the one explain his actions to his brother. Photos in comments..
View ArticleI dont have a reason besides i hate them
I've been reading this group for a while since the birth of my oldest (2yo). The usual story, I had a great relationship with my ILs and invited them to come visit (they were out of town) after the...
View ArticleLast to know EVERYTHING
So sick of DH & i being the last to know anything. Its rude & it hurts. For instance: BIL was going was to Russia. TO RUSSIA! We all live in Chicago. And no one, not even him, thought to...
View ArticleNeed advice about confronting my addict mom - long.
I need some advice about my mom, and I'm sorry it's so long. I'm not sure where to turn for advice, and I am very concerned about how she might react when my first baby gets here in May and I don't...
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CO Two Days Before Due Date *Triggers* (VERY LONG) UPDATE PG 5
Honestly, it's so much that's happened in my life that I don't even know where to begin. To protect myself, I've created an anonymous account. I'm the type that usually writes in my journal, but I need...
View ArticleMIL/SIL and MY children UD pg 7, 10, 12, 13, it starts 14!, squish 21, 25
I mostly lurk here and I believe I have learned tons from you guys. I am hoping I am handling this issue correctly... please direct me if I am not. Sorry this may be long but I want to give the BG. BG:...
View ArticleIs this a normal comment? Long ud of 7, new ? Pg 13, pg 17, 18
Every time we see my dad he always asks if I have a passport for my daughter. He is constantly joking that he is going to take her to Europe if I'm not looking. It is kind of irritating because he is...
View ArticleMIL's bad past
Member of the board seeking guidance. I'm usually strong, but feel like my life has hit zero. We've known for a long time that FIL is getting married. MIL lives out of state, and the only communication...
View ArticleIn-laws believe weird wives tales
Hello everyone, I have a roller coaster relationship with my in-laws and am hoping to get some insight as I am prego with LO #2. My relationship with them nearly imploded when my first was born. We...
View ArticleI have bunnyhorn inclinations LONG. ud 3,4 Sent msg 6, 11, Q 12
BG, my mother is a needy clinger who can occasionally respect boundaries (just enough to make people think she's not a complete mess). We had a blowup a couple of years ago about me saying no to a...
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My mom is deliberately hurtful. - UD 7, 9, 11, 18, 21, 24
Almost four years ago, DH and I placed our son for adoption. My mother still hasn't let go of her anger over me "giving away her grandson" and still holds it over my head. DH and I found out we're...
View ArticleTrigger for Abuse: Crazy FOO, Boundaries, Family Wedding coming up-- advice...
Longtime lurker, first time poster. Apologies for length. I am a woman with a lovely wife and 2 DD's, 1 and 5. My FOO is crazy (probably mom with BPD and dad with NPP) and was abusive when I was...
View ArticleFeeling about length of drug related cos
I know that the general consensus here is drug addiction = no contact with kids unless they get treatment. But what about if they get treatment? Soo just got out of rehab and is doing the sober living...
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Pushy P/A MIL
Hey guys, I've been a lurker on the board since I found out i was pregnant in May, but never thought I'd be posting. I was just here to feed my llama. Long BGMe and my SO have been together for two...
View ArticlePie Pan MOO: UD 122, Notice & more 130's-140's, MOO News 158
Original post on 10/06/15. Updates:2,3,7,8,10,12,14-20,24,26,27, 31, 34, 35, (trigger) 36, 38, car door 41, Pie pan 47, Christmas visit requests 61, 63,64, 68, text 71, side track friend 72-73, SIL 75,...
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