Getting anxious
Hey there, my daughter is 10 months old and the light of my life. I'm basically a SAHM with a very busy husband. My concern is that from the time of our wedding my in laws have told us what/when to do...
View ArticleRant about Sister-in-law
We are visiting my in-laws for my DHs great grandma's 80th birthday and my sister-in-law lives an hour away from her and she has a little girl that is 4 months older then my marchie. They where suppose...
View ArticleSIL issue.
My relationship with my SIL has always kind of been cool. In the beginning I tried to build a relationship with her, but she mostly made me feel like I was irrelevant. Wouldn't really interact much...
View ArticleI think I need to TO my MOO, but for how long?
So I've never had to post here before, but there's something about babies that brings out the crazy in people! This is my first baby, I'm 34 years old. So my MOO lives in Arizona, I live in Michigan,...
View ArticleMIL demanding to go to DD specialist appointment (DD update 17)
Old member, new name. Sticky read. My better judgement is being fogged with some not so awesome news. BG: Same old story. Great relationship with MIL prior to birth of my DD. Boundary stomps left and...
View ArticleNeed to confront the IL's... But how? UD 3, 6, 8, TO text 9, 10
DH and I would like some help addressing some issues with MIL. She plays the victim very well, so text/email is probably the best way to prevent our words from being twisted. Some background: Outsiders...
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GMIL passive aggressive or just my BEC?
I just had a baby 3 weeks ago and am fighting a bout of PPD so I can't tell if I'm being hyper sensitive or if she really overstepped here. GMIL has never liked me, no big deal I cant stand her either....
View ArticleFM's be crazy! UD: GPR? UD: triggery UD: Phone Call UD: text UD: hurt UD:...
I just don't understand people. My brief BG: mom and I were very close (only child / single parent) and had a great relationship until 3 years ago. She's always had anxiety / depression that was well...
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Photos of CO people *Triggers* Q pg 11
Going through a divorce. Once finalized I'm moving to a very anti GPR state. No legal needed, I have Google and a lawyer thanks. Lots of background but it's complicated and a lot of my normal meter so...
View ArticleWhose responsibility are Mother's Day gifts?
Is it the wife's responsibility to buy, send a Mother's Day gift or card to mother in law? I'm not the biggest fan of mine. I always have something for my mom. I was thinking of just not saying...
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Coming By Unannounced, Latest Plan p. 12
Okay, this is my first time posting here about my ILs. DH and I have been a couple for 17 years and married for 12 years. We had a lot of issues early on with IL boundaries. FIL refused to accept me...
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Retroactive DWILing: Am I doing this right?
Here is the BG in my ILs: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a58444525/tough_love_bsc_3_6_gravy_12_13_18_2123_252731_3336?cpg=1 It's very long and emotionally exhausting, because that's how I was...
View ArticleMIL insulting compliment??
So today my inlaws came over to visit, and my mil asked me if I did something with my hair. I said I hadn't done anything (dying/cut) since last November. She goes on to say, "there's something...
View ArticleMom mentioned CPS - CTJ in progress PG 25 *trigger*
My dbf and I have recently moved across the country to live with my parents with our three month old twins who were six weeks at the time. The reason we moved is because shortly after I gave birth I...
View ArticleViolent BIL, Wedding Pearls, etc.
BG: My husband is one of three children in his immediate family on MIL's side only. She and FIL divorced when DH was 11yo, only child at the time. She remarried quickly, and at 42yo had my BIL. New...
View ArticleSIL is mean to our adopted daughter, MIL doesnt care - UD page 13
BG : DH and I met 10 years ago in my home country. He was a student and he lived next door. We talked everyday, fell in love, and got married 8 years ago and i followed DH move here. We wanted child...
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My Wedding Nightmare (Llama Noms)
Ok. Gather round, and hear the horrifying tale that was my wedding. BG: I moved across country (Canada) in Sept. Met Wolf Oct 26th. Got engaged 6 wks and 5 days later, and then married 5 mths and 6...
View ArticleIs standing up to in laws a new concept?
Why is it that in laws in particular seem astounded when you push back at them or demand respect? It seems to me that ALL of my in laws feel they can do/act how they please and there will be no...
View ArticleNeed to confront the IL's... But how? UD 3, 6, 8, TO text 9, 10, VM 11,...
DH and I would like some help addressing some issues with MIL. She plays the victim very well, so text/email is probably the best way to prevent our words from being twisted. Some background: Outsiders...
View ArticleMOO issue
My ILs are my usual problem but my FOO is no piece of cake either. But I live 400 miles from them so I do t usually have to deal with their shit. Some BG on FOO: my Gma is very controlling and...
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