Boyfriends parents too judgmental
Happy New Year all! Regular lurker under new screen name. My original screen name has my first name, so I don't want my boyfriends sister to know I'm on this group. I've been dating him for one year....
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Gift Confusion UD 103,UD 117, UD 140, UD and need help 226, 248, 274 newest UD
I'll keep it short. My SIL (bro's wife) asked my family to buy a specific gift for DN birthday. She sent me the link to order it online. I was fine with that because I did ask what to get him. The gift...
View ArticleMOO thinks of me as her pet. UD 5, surgery 9, holiday disaster 10
I have had second thoughts about posting this or not, I've read it at least a half dozen times questioning if I should hit "post." I don't even know where to start because the history my mom and I have...
View ArticleP30: Calling all narc/enabler survivors. Updates throughout, some triggers
I don't have any BG. I've been lurking, learning, and commenting. I've read the sticky. We are in individual counseling and start couples in two weeks. My DH has a huge, glittering unicorn for his FOO....
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The narcy nana
Long time lurker here, finally have a reason to post. Im going to do my best to keep this short, but please ask for more info if you need it. My nana (maternal g-gma) is a narc. She is selfish, mean,...
View ArticleCome feed your llamas and give me some advice! NOMS 16, 18, UPDATE PG 19, pg...
BG: Married for 5 years and have one 4 month old LO. My MIL is pretty harmless usually. She isn't super involved and we only see her about half a dozen times a year. Since my baby has been born she's...
View ArticleMIL might not show for surprise announcing tonight
Ugh, need some advice/ support. DH and I plan on surprising our moms tonight by telling them we are pregnant... But unreliable, wishy-washy MIL now may not show / keeps pushing back when she'll arrive....
View ArticleBeing blackmailed to move to Dallas
If you look at my previous post on this board, my in-laws are kinda crazy. Both are very involved too much. Since being pregnant it has gotten worse. My MIL refers to the baby as HER grandbaby and...
View ArticleMIL wants me to unblock UD 5, 13, small ud 20 big ud 22
Hi, I'm a longtime lurker, I made this account because my other is too identifiable. I had another anon account that I posted on but I don't remember the details to get into it. Sorry if this gets...
View Article*Trigger* creeper cousin in law
My SIL told us at a family wedding that her cousin's husband had his hand on her ass through the family photos and that this isn't the first time he has touched her inappropriately. She didn't 'make a...
View ArticleMIL doesn't like pacifier. ... AND?!?!
In laws live an hour and a half away and don't visit often (even though they have animals on land 10 min away from us that they come and check on at least once a week ). DD was born on 12/14 and they...
View ArticleAlcoholic NARC FIL + Hostile MIL = Misery UD pg 3-4
Hi Ladies, I am new here. I've been lurking and reading many posts over the last few months. I should warn you in advance - this is going to be long. My DH and I have struggled with PIL for many years....
View ArticleHelp with non-JADEy email to MOO
I've been lurking for a couple of weeks and already realizing so many uncomfortable things about my mother. I figured I'd end up posting eventually, and that day is today. BG: My FOO always had...
View ArticleHow to get on the same team...very long...sorry!
Long time lurker here. Member of BBC for 5 years, but created new username for this post. A little background: married to DH for 6 years and we have two DS's (4 and 2.5). Both DS's have some medical...
View ArticleMIL told DH I'm trapping him with children
I just find this so ridiculous. I am on our 3rd. We are married. All of our children are planned (except our 1st which we got drunk and it happened. He didn't have a condom and knew at the time I...
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Kids Deprioritized - long, triggers. UD 9, 16
I am a long-time comment-er and member, but not really any BG. I apologize for so much BG here for a relatively small issue; I wasn't sure how much was relevant. I am the older daughter, my younger...
View ArticleMIL gave DS advice on who he should like (sensitive issue, looking for advice)
Luker gone anon. I have my big girl panties on, and willing to take all advice. A few days back, we were at my in laws. My kids are 15, 10 and 7. I am black and DH is white. Looking at our kids, you...
View ArticleGrandparents trying to take over my daughter
I'm new to this website after my sister in law told me about this group. Been reading and I think I have teh hang of it. I am a single dad to a 5 month old daughter. Her mom and I were together while...
View Article"MIL" tried to force us to take her gifted bible.. AND..
proceeded to tell us that she would also be giving a bible to both of our children when they were old enough. BG: Just a few days ago we were at MIL's home when she came up and gifted us bibles. We are...
View ArticleDad's Comment
My mom has been wanting my DS (just turned 4) to stay the night with them. He does every now and then and they have a good time. My parents invited me out to lunch today and to give me DS back (DH was...
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