Pie Pan MOO: UD We're out! 181, 190, 197, 200
Original post on 10/06/15. Updates:2,3,7,8,10,12,14-20,24,26,27, 31, 34, 35, (trigger) 36, 38, car door 41, Pie pan 47, Christmas visit requests 61, 63,64, 68, text 71, side track friend 72-73, SIL 75,...
View ArticleDidn't tell MIL we moved, getting mail - UD 7, 17, 18
BG: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a59666998/duh_getting_a_unicorn_horn_help_me_articulate_update_pg_3?cpg=1TL;DR BG: MIL is a narc asshole who uses emotional blackmail. SIL is the GC. Husband is...
View ArticleAm I being insensitive to in laws?
I've posted here before about my in laws and how aggressive they are. They constantly are trying to get their hands on my kids. My oldest two are from a previous relationship(we have shared custody) So...
View ArticleMIL Drama
I have seen my MIL twice since my husband and I have been together (2 years and a half) My DH and her have a rocky relationship, they don't really talk because she chose to be a part of BM's life. My...
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This just makes me ragey
Why does my sister have to text me this info? I don't want to know anything about our mother. She's the one for initiated a cutoff and I'm the one who hasn't let her bullshit back in to my life. It...
View ArticleLong time lurker. (the strep test, but NOT the strep test) Update 5, Question 8
There's a TON of background, but I will try to keep it concise. I will gladly clarify. TL;DR: Drama-stirring MOO wants back after TO. Help me figure out boundaries (if they're possible), how to express...
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Lying MIL: what would you say?
My MIL and I generally get along fairly well, but there have been some bumps in the road due to her serious codependency and boundary issues. Last weekend my DH and I went out of town. She lives...
View ArticleMust be nice. Photographer responds 24
This isn't an IL issue but I've been lurking here for over a year and made an account recently to comment on a post. I'm your textbook doormat trying to find my spine. I have a serious problem saying...
View ArticleI'm not grandma.
I have a theory about grandmothers that insist they be called "nana" and not "grandma". The nanas I have meet are boundary stompers and want to pretend that they are the grandchild's mother. My theory...
View ArticleAm I being overbearing?
BG: My MIL and I have never really gotten along just tolerated each other. Things were ok while I was pregnant with my dd (now 6 months old). I also have a 2 year old ds. She even came over and watched...
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The Emotional Blackmailing Inlaws **trigger**
So, I've lurked here for a while and I've read through the sticky. I was able to get a couple of the recommended books from our library and I feel like DH and I are slowly getting to where we need to...
View ArticleFMIL meltdown (lengthy)
Okay, so last night my fmil literally flipped out and stormed out of the room after i answered a question she had about crib bedding. Here's what happened: my fiance and I were outside in the...
View Articleplease rehome your dog, so we can come mooch off of you. new issue pg 105
Bg: My h is an employee for popular vacation destination, We are originally from a town that gets record snowfalls. It's a very tiny town, (so news travels fast, I guess). Over the last week, I have...
View ArticleDidn't tell MIL we moved, getting mail - UD 7, 17, 18 text pg 26
BG: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a59666998/duh_getting_a_unicorn_horn_help_me_articulate_update_pg_3?cpg=1TL;DR BG: MIL is a narc asshole who uses emotional blackmail. SIL is the GC. Husband is...
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gift grabbing and llama noms. chilie rellanos recipe 18,19
So, my cousin and his girlfriend just had their 3rd kid in 3 years. She posted an event on facebook, and they are throwing themselves a sip and see type of thing. Cousins girlfriend has posted the last...
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I have to share the llama noms (grandma/baby shower), UD page 2- menu, 5, 18
There is a person on my facebook who runs the alumni page for my high school. I've always raised my eyebrows at her posts because she is clearly very enmeshed with her daughter. Posting her daughter's...
View ArticleDoormat Daughter ud pg 4
FFS, where do I begin. Our relationship is strained. I do limited contact because she is a negative, insulting, pain in my ass. I let my mother move in temporarily-- and I mean that. We were renting...
View ArticleNot sure if I should say something
So, I'm going to try to keep this short. Generally I'd mind my own business; because not my circus, not my monkeys...but I think if this were me I'd want to know. Just want some unbiased perspective. I...
View ArticleOverreaction?- Putting DF's mother on ITO- long
I've posted here before, but about different issues. I'm still angry so please forgive any typos. My DF passed away unexpectedly on Oct 04. There was a huge amount of drama surrounding his funeral. He...
View ArticleHow would you feel about this? Background throughout, 4,7,12, contact12 UD16...
Let me preface this with I am an only child who is the primary caregiver to my parents. My mother has a brain injury and an underlying personality disorder that makes her difficult at best. My dad is...
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