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Apparently I'm trained...
My in laws live 4 hrs away and visit for about 2 hours 1-2 times a month as they pass through the area when traveling. I have a 10 month old ds who obviously doesn't see them alot and is also going...
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So I was told to start my own thread cause you guys can help. I'll try not to make it long and if you want more BG then I'll comment it. BG- we put my mil on a TO right before we found out we were...
View ArticleUpdate Pg 2: letter from therapist update p 20: now they're contacting my in...
TLDNR: My parents are critical and controlling. They said horrible things to and about my husband and kids when I was deathly ill. They've never really gotten along with my husband. We've cut them...
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FIL took DD for a walk, didn't tell us
and I know I'm probably overreacting. I need honesty. DH, myself, and DD (she's 20 months) live next to our in laws. Mistake #1. We're looking for houses but money is tight. We should be out by...
View ArticleBoundaries help
I've written out a list of boundaries for my parents (and my in laws but they're pretty good at listening to me) but I've noticed they're more along the lines of me trying to control them instead of...
View ArticleSIL and MIL becoming my BECs after LO's birth. Text from MIL p.5
I have some background here already, the issues pertaining to my in-laws might be relevant:...
View Articleneed help update pg. 34...Bigfoot (sister) and bil.,(update pg12)pg14 pg21...
I keep wanting to post here, but just dont have the patience or the "want". I usually end up way too lazy to type out my whole story. I guess basically what i am here for is advice, opinions, and tough...
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"boundaries-9" emails 12, 14, letter 15, and the CRAZIEST THING I HAVE EVER...
A sick asshole is still an asshole, right? I believe I've seen this and other thoughts on the matter on here, but I'm needing help remembering/feeling less guilty. Background:...
View ArticleAm I wrong, or visit a bad idea? UD 3
Here's the issue: DH's family (MIL & GMIL) live across the country from us. He wants to fly down and visit this summer because he's "homesick" and hasn't seen them in 3-5 years. I am in the 1st...
View ArticleNeed help dealing with my MIL
This will be a long post, I don't even know where to begin this post might be a scrambled mess. My husband is very very close to his family. He thinks they are perfect, can do no wrong. My husband...
View ArticleI think I need to CO my MOO p2,5,11,15,17,19,24,32,44,52,63,68,72, major...
I think the time has come to cut out my mom and dad. I'm feeling guilty because their health isn't great, but I just can't let them treat me like this anymore. Background: about 2 years ago I got...
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Boundary Stomping SMom demanding to be at birth UD 5, 10, 16, 18, 30, 33, 36,...
Alright this is probably going to be long but I need to get it all out so that I can get the cold hard truth and best way to handle this from you all. BG: My sis and I were finally able to contact our...
View Articledisrespect towards religious beliefs
Not in laws, but my family. My husband and I have decided to raise our children without religion until they reach an age where they can decide what belief system, if any, gives them comfort. Since my...
View ArticleUpdate and News *Trigger*...Advice pg. 4?
Hey ladies, You know me a little by now. I'm not sure how to link my previous post that's on here, but I don't know if it really matters too much. If any of you can help me link it I will. The gist...
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MOO wants to take my son on his birthday
Hello. Old member, new name. Silly me used my name when I made my account in 2009. I've put my MOO in TO due to passive aggressive bull stuff and she likes to blame me for everything that's happened in...
View ArticleFMIL meltdown (lengthy)
Okay, so last night my fmil literally flipped out and stormed out of the room after i answered a question she had about crib bedding. Here's what happened: my fiance and I were outside in the...
View ArticleWidowed Boyfriend's In-laws Not Including My Daughter
I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now. His wife died suddenly two years ago. He has twin daughters who are nine years old. I have a daughter from a prior relationship (never...
View ArticleIn laws wanting to move to be by grandkids
Help! In laws live 2.5 hours away. They are very nice but can be a little overwhelming constantly saying they want to be with the kids more ( 7 months and 2 yrs) now they are saying they might move...
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BF's dad constantly asking for pictures.
Hey there, long time lurker..I just need advice on how to handle this situation. A little background: Before I met my boyfriend, I was with another guy for a few years, we broke up in 2013 when our...
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Let's not sweep this
I've posted here before about ILs. About 2 years ago they moved from 3 hours drive away to less than a 5 minute drive away while I was pregnant with DD. I think MIL sees DH as surrogate husband...
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