I WILL have boundaries. Help.
I need some guidance. I have a total DuH and boundary stomping ILs. They are not BSC and they run under everyone’s radar because they are so wonderful and nice and helpful. For years I couldn’t figure...
View ArticleDo I need to say more?
I have one previous post but I couldn't get back into my account and created a new profile. I'll include what I need to here. I originally cut off my parents due to their drinking but through therapy I...
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Let's not sweep this-new q pg 8
I've posted here before about ILs. About 2 years ago they moved from 3 hours drive away to less than a 5 minute drive away while I was pregnant with DD. I think MIL sees DH as surrogate husband...
View ArticleWas I rude?
I deal with everyone on my husband's side the least amount possible for my own mental health. I am just not a fan. His mom and brother invited themselves over on Sunday (whatever) to see my daughter so...
View ArticleBIL stole iPhone
Hi Ladies, I'm back again with yet another story about my crazy family. So, a few nights ago, I had my young BIL (15) babysit my kids (4 and 2) while DH and I went out. My oldest, 4yo DD, has one of...
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The GPR threat taken all the way; UD p83
This thread was originally entitled "I sent a boundaries email..." but our life has now moved so far past that, so I've updated it. We recently celebrated our 1year CO date (or as DH put it: "A year...
View ArticleUpdate and News *Trigger*...Advice pg. 4?
Hey ladies, You know me a little by now. I'm not sure how to link my previous post that's on here, but I don't know if it really matters too much. If any of you can help me link it I will. The gist...
View ArticleHow to deal with prejudiced in-laws
First, some background info: Until recently, we lived in a very conservative state, but a few month ago we moved back to our home state. Part of the reason we moved was because the state we lived in...
View ArticleI dont want them to stay but duh does
I have been a member since my oldest was a baby but went annon for this post as my sn has my name in it. I am currently almost 34 weeks pregnant. I will be having a RCS in a little over a month. My...
View ArticleAmerican in laws hate my rules
Hello from the U.K! A mama from BabycentreUK coming over here to get better in depth advice as it's always been said your group gives great advice. A little about me: been married for 12 years to an...
View ArticleOverheard FiL telling Husband that I'd ruined their family
Hello wise ladies, A few nights ago my husband took his dad to a local winery for a special wine tasting event. I’d bought them both tickets as I know they both love wine and they hadn’t had any...
View ArticleMIL...me post partum. long UPDATE p. 10. 19
I am new to this board, but I have been active on other boards and I am using an anon account bc my account can be easily found by family, if they wanted. BG: Dh 30 me 27. Married 3 years, together 5....
View ArticleHow to talk to MIL about this?
A little background... I have been married for four years. My DH is an only child and my MIL had a hard time when we got married. She didn't care too much for me and we had a strained relationship....
View ArticleDH sent the text anyway, another detail p. 7, UD 18, 22, 27, 30, 38
First time poster here, have been reading for a while but went anonymous. I've been in IL hell for the 7 years I've been married. ILs are emotionally abusive and treat DH and me horribly. For the...
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A little update from Me :)
Hi to all friendly ladies here, I decided to write a new post to give you all some updates about my current situation. This is link to my old post:...
View ArticleILs want to come out and wait for baby to be born UPDATE pg 9
I'm due in October and my in laws want to set a date to come out and just wait for baby to be born. I don't think I'm going to want to have to entertain them everyday, while being super pregnant, while...
View ArticleMIL already starting at 8 weeks!
I have had a fine relationship with my MIL so far. Now that I'm 8 weeks along with her first grandchild of her only child, she is slowly becoming a bit more brave. She started with subtly throwing into...
View ArticleManipulative, narcissistic MIL
Ugh where to begin...my hubs is from West coast and moved to eat coast for me. We got pregnant, got married and just had our 2nd LO. My MIL from literally the day I flew out to meet her has been...
View ArticleThey made a disapproved noise. SIL's update pg 2
So DH and I are expecting our little girl in august 11th. I don't speak to my SIL very much, I'm a very private distant person. So is my DH. So I called them on behalf of my DH cause his phone broke....
View ArticleWhy couldn't you come for 5 minutes?! Small ud p4
First time poster here. I need help figuring out how to handle this situation and validation for my feelings. Tldr at bottom. Bg: I got pregnant with my first at 16. Me and dh married at this age and...
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