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Delete that picture on the debil. D-day UD18
So I am on vacation with my boyfriend and I happened to upload a picture on Facebook. My dad who I love very much and is my friend on Facebook just sent me this message "hey honey, please delete that...
View ArticleSister is a liar *triggers*: need help editing letter to sister
Updates here: 3, 4, 6, 9, 10, $17, 19, 20, 24, 32, 37, 52, 53, Hi all! I am a lurker mainly. I have been waiting for an opportunity to come up in my family, because it is inevitable. I think something...
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My stepmom has cut me off -- can I still have a relationship with my dad?
My stepmom of 8/9 years cut me off a few months ago. I honestly don't know why -- she cut my sister off too, and she DEFINITELY never did anything to deserve it because she lives many states away and...
View ArticleIkeaGate - Touching Base
Hello all, hoping you all had a wonderful, stress-free  holiday season. Things have been pretty quiet (for the most part) on my end. Post-new baby life has been wonderful, we are all loving it, and DD...
View ArticleBEC/Crossing a line, or is it just me? **Potential Trigger**
I've been lurking here on DWIL for a while now, created an account late December, read the sticky. I've learned a lot about my flimsy spine and much more during my time as a lurker and I feel I am...
View ArticleOn the verge of a divorce
I'm 22, married, & expecting my first child in the summer. Being that it's the first I am beyond excited. Or at least I was... Recently my mother in law has became so controlling about my...
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MIL Rant! Grrr...
Copied over from my Birth Club. A little backstory. IL's live 45 minutes away. We let them know about big things going on, DSD's games, ODD's dance recital, etc. But they are always welcome. We...
View ArticleHow would you have responded?
New SN. Active, regular member. This is the shortest version of what happened I could get because my post was just WAY too long. Will give details as needed. *whew* ok. I've been wanting to post for a...
View ArticleOT: What would've happened if you HADN'T found DWIL?
All of us are here because of inlaw problems. But what would've happened if you hadn't found DWIL at all? Would you have carried on being a doormat? Or do you think, eventually, you would have TO or CO...
View ArticleBlouses! Summary 46, 51, 59,67, 70, 85, 108, UD 111, 112
Updates: 3, 5, 8,10, 13, 18, 21, 22, 23, 24, 27, 31, 32, 35, 36, 40  I fear I am not handling things well. My mom is narcisissitic, however, not as bad as some others I see on these boards. Despite...
View ArticleMIL hatred
I'm sure I'm not the only one- I don't like MIL for many reasons. Main being she initially told me to get an abortion- I've tried to "forgive and forget" but it's always in the back of my head. Also,...
View ArticleVent/advice needed
The short version of the story goes as follows: unhealthy mother moves in with my family and I and stays for two years. In that Time everything was placed on the back burner including my immediate...
View ArticleFIL freaked out. - pg 10, 12, 14 UD Pg 14, 15, 17, 18, 22. Squish pg 24
Hi everyone, I've never posted in DWIL before but I'm not sure where else to turn. My husband and I got married last July, own our own house, both work FT, and are expecting our first baby in December....
View ArticlePie pan MOO: NewYears Note 99, this never stops 102, contact 106, cat 108,...
Original post on 10/06/15. Updates:2,3,7,8,10,12,14-20,24,26,27, 31, 34, 35, (trigger) 36, 38, car door 41, Pie pan 47, Christmas visit requests 61, 63,64, 68, text 71, side track friend 72-73, SIL 75,...
View ArticleMy mom = drama but I love my dad
I would be much better off cutting my mom out of the picture (head games, gas lighting & constant drama). But I love my dad. They're a package deal. Of course he doesn't catch on to her head games,...
View ArticleMOO thinks of me as her pet. UD 5, surgery 9, holiday disaster 10, stem cells 12
I have had second thoughts about posting this or not, I've read it at least a half dozen times questioning if I should hit "post." I don't even know where to start because the history my mom and I have...
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Needing perspective, was I wrong? May contain triggers.
I need some perspective Some background: I have major anxiety I mean major. Diagnosed with agoraphobia, severe anxiety, and depression. I had to be weened off my cymbalta because of horrible migraines....
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I've lost perspective - dependent entitled SOO. Failed CTJ with MS p9,...
I think I'm about to lose my cool and I want to know if I'm doing too much or too little here. It's to do with my FOO - I've had 2 hours sleep after being in hospital and I'm not thinking clearly....
View ArticleBad idea. UD 7. UD pg 8. DH is a DuH.
BG: YBIL is an ex addict. He's been sober for a year and a half. He has a job, and a car, and this is the best he's ever done. He's still on probation. OBIL lives in a home that PILs own. His wife and...
View ArticleSetting Boundaries and Enforcing Them
Hi. New to the board, I've done some lurking here and I'm hoping you ladies can help me. I have a mil problem. She's overbearing, snarky, and has no respect for boundaries. Worse than that is dh likes...
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