Grooming ... just need some support
This is not a family situation, but a neighbor we have known and had a friendly relationship with for eight years. In his early sixties, married. Our oldest daughter, nine, Came to me tonight and asked...
View Article"My sister isn't Daddy's"
Something really strange happened today and I'm not sure how to take it. SIL came over today to pick up something. While she was here she was holding YDD and talking to her. Everything was completely...
View ArticleSometimes i just want to scream
I'm currently pregnant with our first l.o.... my family and I are not close.. My mom has bipolar & borderline personality.. (i figured it out as an adult..) i endured years of physical and mental...
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My DF is a DuH isn't he??
A little background: My DF & I are currently living in his parents house with his parents and his almost 30 year old brother. His family is very "non confrontational" in such a way that his parents...
View Article"My sister isn't Daddy's" Told DH p. 3 MIL said it p.6 Help me talk to DUH p.12
Something really strange happened today and I'm not sure how to take it. SIL came over today to pick up something. While she was here she was holding YDD and talking to her. Everything was completely...
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Debated Posting, Finally Took The Plunge-UD 10 Baby Time
I lurked here on my other account, which I used for my birth board but it had my real name in it. I don't want my relatives seeing this so I have created this new one to post. I was a little hesitant...
View ArticleEvil in-laws
So this is about a guy I know... We went to high school together. Rode the same school bus for many years. He was several years ahead of me, but we had talked on the bus numerous times. After high...
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Grandma in law drama. Am i being irrational?
So last year we paid for my husbands grandma to come visit us. We bought her ticket, paid for her food, and fun stuff we did with her. She came right after i had my ds so i obviously was exhausted (he...
View ArticleI'm A WRECK ***triggers throughout***
Please bear with me as this is going to be long and all over the place. I've been off and on BBC/DWIL since 2006 and I'm probably not even posting in the right place. DH and I have been together ten...
View ArticleI don't want my MIL to visit us the month of my due date (long) (update pg11)
1. In October my husband told his parents (divorced) that we were expecting another baby in April. My MIL said she wanted come visit before I was due to help out before the baby is born, I told her...
View Article4 Month Old Just Met Inlaws
So, we just moved about 5 minutes away from my in-laws temporarily. We will be in town for the summer for two months. They met their first grandchild today (my son), and it was tough. FIL was great,...
View ArticleMIL giving my dinner away wtf
There was a very emotional event that affected DH and his FOO today (and myself to an extent). I don't get along particularly well with MIL or SIL (we are polite and nice to each other, and I get along...
View ArticleMIL RUINING VACAY 411: coffee machine and flowers (All updates in Original Post
ALL UPDATES: 6, 8, 9, 10, 11, 14, 32, 36, 39, 46, 62, 67, 74, 75, 76, 82 fibonaccisequins transcribed texts, 97, 104, 105, 106, 110, 111+ bonus veggie lasagna recipe, 124--Fearless Leader's lyrics...
View ArticleNot a family member...but so glad I had DWIL!!!
I am a many month lurker and a very recent poster. I have taken in every bit of advice from you ladies (and gents) to help remove toxicity from my life. For several months I have been the lead on...
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We've seen the light. Now what?
I apologize for the length. My question is, do you think low-contact is an acceptable way to handle these people? My PIL and SILs have been a problem since we got engaged - the typical pushy and...
View ArticleSIL throwing herself a babyshower....for my baby UD pg 9, 15
Our situation is somewhat unique, and my screen name has identifiying info, so I'm going anonymous for this one! Sorry in advance--this is going to be long. DH co his sister (his only sibling) forever...
View ArticleDoes anybody have these?
My IL's are annoying the shit out of me. They not nearly as toxic as some of these posts (I've been lurking for a while). And I'm not going to cut them off because they are nice people and BUT, I do...
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How to move forward with this?
Long time lurker but now I need help. Me and the kids,3 of them, have had no contact with mil since December. Dh has gone LC. She's done many things have been disrespectful either to me, dh and/or of...
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I've been told to come here
I posted this on my birth month board and was told this was a situation for the DWIL board. Give me your best, ladies. LO will be 4 months on Saturday. Here is my original post as well as a few...
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Are we in the wrong? Help supporting DF
Longtime lurker.. First time posting and I'm shocked it's about DF's family and not mine. My mom is classic NPD, father classic enabler, sister GC, me scapegoat. Been on LC for years, done therapy,...
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