2nd baby and CO in-laws
I'm pregnant with our second baby. My in-laws have been co since December 2014. We've had a bad relationship since 2007 when my now DH proposed to me. I think they feel I "stole" him away even though...
View ArticleOver eager grandmother, help! Update page 7, 11, 15
I'll try from keeping this too wordy, but that probably won't happen. I'm just going to start from the beginning & hope someone can give me some advice! Several years ago my boyfriend and I were...
View ArticleSis Troubles, dad calls pg 3
So my MIL passed away 3 years ago, but when she was alive, my sister (who lives about 1200 miles away and only ever met my MIL at my wedding) decided it was a good idea to trash talk me to her giving...
View ArticleShe manipulated SO...
Long story short, my mother in law manipulated my SO. He went from fully supporting me and homebirth to completely against it. Nothing changed until she talked to him. And now the fear and worry is so...
View ArticleDuH family ruined my pregnancy and post partum...update page 7...small update...
Since DD has been born i have noticed my feelings twoards my husbands family have changed. Before DD was born i was happy around them and got along with most of my DH family. During my pregnancy i felt...
View Article"My sister isn't Daddy's" Told DH p. 3 MIL said it p.6 Help me talk to DUH p.12
Something really strange happened today and I'm not sure how to take it. SIL came over today to pick up something. While she was here she was holding YDD and talking to her. Everything was completely...
View ArticleHoping *trigger* ,UD pg 2, text pg 3, showed up 4, FM 6, reply8,UD 9, new 16,...
Long time member, new screen name to be anon. Relevant BG: my mom and I never had a great relationship (I have put her in TO before for almost a year) but I thought things were going better since I had...
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CO FOO: I miss my brother. Advice?
I have been a BBC member for a few years now and first wanted to thank all you DWIL ladies for helping me develop a spine and giving my FOO the CO it desperately needed. I will give as much backgroud...
View ArticleIn laws not sensitive to kids' needs.
Posted this in another thread to relate to that OP and it was suggested I start a thread about it. BG-I am somewhat newly married and step-mom to 5 year old twins. DH takes the approach of "it's just...
View ArticleFMIL meltdown (lengthy)
Okay, so last night my fmil literally flipped out and stormed out of the room after i answered a question she had about crib bedding. Here's what happened: my fiance and I were outside in the...
View ArticleOver eager grandmother, help! Update page 7, 11, 15, 20, 22
I'll try from keeping this too wordy, but that probably won't happen. I'm just going to start from the beginning & hope someone can give me some advice! Several years ago my boyfriend and I were...
View ArticleIs this petty?
I have posted about ILs before but this is about my FOO. My husband and I don't yet have children and we both work full time, while my two sisters each have 2 children and spend a lot of time with my...
View ArticleTired of seeking affection...DHs lies have ruined my reputation...
Dear members, I am a long time reader with a new screenname for privacy. I would love to get your advice for dealing with my inlaws. I am the black sheep ( also because of the problems I am about to...
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Edit: SIL took MY child from daycare: UD pg 7
So I found out that my SIL has been feeding my 1year old pop and candy while at daycare. I confronted her in a very nice manner (I wanted to rip her throat off). We have been having issues with LO...
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Convo re MIL, and DH runs off? Therapy UD 16, 41, 49, 55, counseling 60, UD...
Very upset right now. Months ago, DH and I agreed that we would not tell anyone when I went into labor. It seemed like a non issue. Today, I come home from work and DH tells me he saw his mother....
View ArticleFed up
DH comes home from deployment tomorrow. Today he had a lay over in Ireland and told me he was going to spend 150 on a bottle of whiskey. He recently bought himself a $1500 laptop. I told him that it...
View ArticleOvernight visits update pg6 (talk with DuH)
I dont know if this belongs here because honestly I know it's a problem with my DuH. I need to stop these overnight visits with his mom. We used to live an hour from her, so I sort of understood her...
View Article"I need to KISS THE BELLY!!!" Grossed out by MIL. Sorry long.
Long time lurker and first time poster here. Some BG: Like many DWIL-ers, I got along with MIL when husband and I were dating. Husband was a bachelor who wasn’t settled and MIL was excited that he was...
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Photos of CO people *Triggers* Q pg 11, Ud 15, Blanket 21, 24, 27!!! 30,...
Going through a divorce. Once finalized I'm moving to a very anti GPR state. No legal needed, I have Google and a lawyer thanks. Lots of background but it's complicated and a lot of my normal meter so...
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Came across this old message from mil to DH...
Sorry this is long and kind of all over the place...I'm attaching pics of the message from when did was born...(you'll read about that here) From the moment our first child was born I have had to deal...
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