Didn't visit new baby soon enough Updates 5, 7, 8
Heard from my Mom that my brother and his wife are upset with my husband and I that we didn't come and meet their new baby soon enough. We live in a different state, and have crazy work schedules, and...
View ArticleIt's not about the furniture UD 5-18, text from MIL 25, UD 31, 32, 36, text...
I will preface this by saying that I realize I needed to have a spine years ago and have made MANY mistakes with my MIL but I am trying to rehab and use my words to tell her no and set boundaries...
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how do you do it? How do you constantly BH and bean dip and not feed into the BS???!!
View ArticleBIL bought house next door; update pg9
So obviously since I can't change the situation, what are some rules that should be set about this.Dh thinks that he won't be around much if he's not there, but I think he will. He often stayed with us...
View ArticleMy MIL lives with us but I feel "trapped"
Hi everyone. I am a regular babycenter member, but never have been on here. I've been told to give your board a try in seeking advice. Due to having sister in laws and other members of my family on my...
View ArticleMIL Tantrum & Deployment BH? pg 5 NEW 9 apology 18 in town 25 Q31
Its been a while since I posted here. A long while. Most of my BG issues are about my ILs. Mostly SIL, MIL and occasionally GMIL. I believe my first post here was about last deployment 2 years ago. I...
View ArticleThe "One Visit Per Week" IL Rule. Aka, I Must Hate ILs --UD 7, 11; ?-11, 15; 16
Studious lurker since i got pregnant and found BBC last August or so. Went anon cuz my username is really identifiable. The advice for various posters has already helped me in various situations, but i...
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Thought I had MIL trained. UD 5, BSC 8, 15, 21& noms, 25? NonUD 32, Q33,...
Long time lurker, occasional commenter, I've gone anon because family members. Well versed with the Sticky To set the scene, my now-turned duh and I live in a seasonal tourist trap. Summer is a very...
View ArticleOffensive email from MIL, UPDATE blow-up with DuH p. 5, TALK W/DUH 19, UD 23,...
Hi everyone! Where do I start? My MIL is controlling, jealous, and hates that DH no longer puts her first. DH was the GC growing up, then switched to the scapegoat since he "abandoned ILs" and...
View ArticleWeird dream...
Dreamt the oddest thing last night, that PIL and SIL (always a threesome) stopped by our place and I completely ignored them by focusing my attention on something else. FIL was all (fake) smiles, SIL...
View ArticleMIL "gifted" me w/ formula
Where do I begin? My FOO is pretty much cut off - lots of dysfunction there. My DH & I have always enjoyed a warm & loving relationship w/ his parents. A few years ago, we moved to the same...
View Articleis this a good reason to Co Ail?
dh and I got married by hand fasting, when his aunt came to visit she kept pushing for us to have a "real" wedding. we told her repeatedly no our marriage is just as sacred as a Christian marriage. She...
View ArticleMIL treats me like an egg donor (UD: 4,6,8,11,15,18)
My co-worker referred me to this board. I've been reading posts and the sticky for a few hours, but apologies if I don't get the abbrevations right. I'll do my best! My story: DH and I have been...
View ArticleIs it finally over? Tiny update pg 16
I wish I had found DWIL about 10 years ago because that's how long it's taken to get my in-law situation under control. Right now we're in an indefinite TO. DH has come an incredibly long way and I'm...
View ArticleUpdates throughout. New update: GMIL text 177
First of all, I should say that I don't have family of my own. My mother died when I was young and I haven't seen my father for 10 years. He was extremely psychologically abusive, and I'm sure mentally...
View ArticleNot your run of the MIL family (probably long and trigger) UD 18 post surgery...
MIL is a character. I have known her for 8 years and have always made efforts to be kind and treat her like family, she just makes it so hard. SO is from another culture and I don't mind (kids are...
View ArticleMIL and my pregnancy/future baby
just to be blunt, my MIL is a bitch. SO and I have been together for 7 years. Finally having a baby. My pregnancy has made MIL crazy. Wants to be involved in everything, even gave name suggestions when...
View ArticleMIL taking over halloween
My MIL is my BEC and I need to know if I'm just overreacting. We are very short on money because I chose to be a SAHM. We have enough money to get by, but don't have any extra. Yesterday my MIL comes...
View ArticleNeed Advice.. my mom is driving me crazy.
My mom comes over twice a week to "help" with my 6 month old so I can either rest or get other things done. This would be great... except: She makes everything more messy than when she got here. Last...
View ArticleSIL excited? Update 1? Email sent 7 Pg 9
Very new here was recommended by a friend. I have read a few posts, I appologize if I mess up the lingo. I have one DD who is 13 months and am pregnant with #2 in January with DS. I have been with DH...
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