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The GPR threat taken all the way; p158 - WE WON!!
This thread was originally entitled "I sent a boundaries email..." but our life has now moved so far past that, so I've updated it. We recently celebrated our 1year CO date (or as DH put it: "A year...
View ArticleNarc/BPD mom (LONG)
Hi ladies, Your reputation precedes you ...when I told a friend about my situation with my MOO, she suggested I come post here. She described you guys as no nonsense, blunt and not the sugar coating...
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I am finally joining! Update* help pg 23 pg 27 urgent help pg33
I have been married for 9 years and have had a good relationship with my inlaws up until now. I have delt with mil and all of her rude comments over the years by just ignoring them. She has been a big...
View ArticleThis is a MUST-read. Updates: p.11, 16 (MIL e-mail), 21, 28, 34 (MIL text),...
**Someone recommended I post on here for advice as well (I originally posted this to the babycenter November birthclub community post....appreciate any insights from all of you experts out there!**...
View ArticleAnd then, the cake - UPDATE 4
UPDATE: PAGE 4  I am typing this up hoping and PRAYING that this doesn’t turn into a legendary lawn tantrum. Mostly, I am writing this for my husband who finally told his parents he was done....
View ArticleSecret santa or die!!
I've been reading DWIL for several months. I have learned ALOT! I have a previous post but, it's not really relevant in this issue (I can like for science if needed). BG: I just recently married in...
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sil overstepping her boundaries df wants me to keep quite....and im...
I think frustrated is a understatement. Ok here some backround on her. Ive been with my df for 3 years 4 in may. Ive really bonded with df mother we have similar childhoods went through negelct and...
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Llama Noms... I'm a toxic DIL
Quick BG: Mil is CO for hiding the fact she has a registered sex offender living with her. While looking up sex offenders in my community, I figured it out on my own after my son had already spent the...
View ArticleCrossroad. Is it worth losing my husband?
I've read this board enough to see that my problem is not only my mil but also my duh. She has some very unhealthy holds on her kids and seems emotionally incapable of changing. Which leaves duh and I...
View ArticleWhat to do this Thanksgiving ?
With all these post about Thanksgiving I figured I should decide what to do. Total of 7 people 4 kids 3 adults. Kids have the whole week off from school. Great Wolf lodge is sold out so that's not an...
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The GPR threat taken all the way; p158 - WE WON!! p185 ED's reaction
This thread was originally entitled "I sent a boundaries email..." but our life has now moved so far past that, so I've updated it. We recently celebrated our 1year CO date (or as DH put it: "A year...
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my greatGmil posted today on facebook - quote "need Lo picks -GreatGMil ". She didn't tag me or DH in the post, I just randomely caught it while scrolling through. This GreatGMil is my mils MOO and...
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Inlaws getting vacation house within 5 miles of our house
We have a 3 month old, and both of our families live out of state. My inlaws just notified us that they are looking for a vacation home within a 5 mile radius of our house because they feel like...
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Need Advice- boundary stomping mom LONG. Update pg 4, text from mom pg 5
So a little background - I'm 25, DH is 27. We just adopted our DD in september after 7 years of infertility/losses. My mom & stepdad have been married since I was in elementary, and I have an 18yo...
View ArticlePlease help me- holidays related
I've been lurking here for months and this is my first time posting. I've had a rocky past 6 months with my parents, including a 3 month TO due to reasons regarding how my MOO acted during my last...
View ArticleIndian MIL- bossy and needy update 22 MIL coming back
MIL has been constantly ill since we got married. She feels that my husband will leave her in old age. She is only 60 but 60 is old in a third world country we come from. Also, DILs are not respected...
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Is the relationship w my dad only in my head?
BG: I had a pretty happy/standard childhood. In retrospect, my parents had a tumultuous relationship (my dad cheated a few times, had a child around the same time my little sister was born) but as kids...
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Worried about families reaction to pregnancy!
Im super hopeful that this is finally going to be my month to get a positive with baby #1! We BD at the perfect timing and things just feel like they are falling into place (not getting my hopes up or...
View ArticleCrossroad. Is it worth losing my husband?
I've read this board enough to see that my problem is not only my mil but also my duh. She has some very unhealthy holds on her kids and seems emotionally incapable of changing. Which leaves duh and I...
View ArticleI feel harassed by MIL at this point.
I'm a recovering doormat with a DuH transitioning to a DH. MIL basic boundary stomps including showing up at my LOs birth although I respectfully asked everyone to give DH and I that time alone....
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