MIL had my DD in the pool with her
Anon lurker with family here. My MIL watches our DD three days a week. She is a retired nurse. We used her to watch our DD, because our DD was preemie, and we felt comfortable with someone like my MIL...
View Articlewhy do so many people hate their inlaws?
I know I can't stand mine. But why is that? Is there some scientific reason that we are programmed to not like these people? Other people like them, why can't I? I just can't. And, to think they...
View Articleteaching Sunday School makes it okay..UD p3 ED shows up
My background is under a different screen name, but I truly just don't care anymore if I'm found. http://community.babycenter.com/post/a40968055 Since all this went down, we've had very few texts and a...
View ArticleIs BH Always Best?
I began lurking over a year ago, while pregnant. Thanks to DWIL, I haven't spoken to my abusive father since Christmas Eve last year! We also began setting some boundaries with my MIL, which has been a...
View ArticleI'm the bad guy
I am the reason SO family doesn't have a relationship with our LO. Long story short, according to them I refuse to take LO to their house and I want to keep LO away because I'm an evil DIL/SIL. Mind...
View ArticleMother Called Ex to Get Me In-Line || Recent UD: 114
Updates: 3, 4, 8, 11, 13, 14, 16, 23, 25, 28, 30, 32, 35, 37, 39, 41, 45, 50, 52 Puppy Pics, 54, 55, 59, 60, 61, 62, 68, 69, 71, 73, 74, 82, 85, 87, 93, 95. 96 [mental health explination], 98, 104, 114...
View ArticleSIL's little "crush" on my DH. Mostly for your hungry llama.
Ooooook so this one is...... bizarre. This has been unfolding for years, but it's become increasingly apparent over time that my SIL has a little thing for my DH, at least on some level. BG here is...
View ArticleAdvice on how to handle FIL obvious favoritism *Long*
Ok here goes, Ive been with my DF for 3 year now, Im 7 years older than him (Im 31 and hes 24) I had one DD and one DS from a previous relationship. DF and I got pregnant with our YDD very soon but we...
View Article45 minutes, 2, letter 5
Potential duh had a 45 minute conversation yesterday with co mil. She called from a number he didn't recognize and he answered. Instead of hanging up he talked for 45 minutes. Tried to tell her again...
View ArticleLiving w in laws but need to get out
Hi, ladies. This is my first post, it was suggested I come here for advice. Living with my in-laws has been no walk in the park, my MIL being the main source of stress. An incident occurred on Thursday...
View ArticleMIL wants our DD have her first name
Lurker here. My SILs are on here, so need privacy. My DH and I are going to be having the first granddaughter of the family. My MiL wants us to use her first name for the baby. I told her I don't like...
View ArticleDH mad at therapist
My husband is really mad at my therapist for telling me that t I cannot change his relationship with his parents. He's so mad that he said that he believes that the therapist is trying to ruin our...
View ArticleMIL Trying to Trauma Bond; Q pg4, UD 5, 7, 10, 15, 17,19, 21, MIL letter to...
Long time lurker, first time poster. Not going anonymous because I really DGAF. BG: MIL is my BEC. DH has pretty much dropped the rope with her but I feel some sick twisted obligation to bring DDs...
View ArticleDWIL has me rethinking... update with yet ANOTHER lawn tantrum pg 60. FML
Q pg 2, UD pg 6,7 BG pg 8 UD pg 11, 15, 20, BG on IC 24, Q 28, burn letter on 29 help please. UD burn letter pg 31,BIG UD lawn tantrum 32 another lawn tantrum pg 43NON UD 48, Moms BG TRIGGER 49 Q pg 50...
View ArticleMIL issues - I want to CO! Additional BG- page 5
My MIL has been totally pushy and intrusive since I've met her. My Dh. and I have been married for 2 years (together for 4) and just had our first baby in April. Since we were dating she has been...
View ArticleMIL Trying to Trauma Bond; Q pg4, UD 5, 7, 10, 15, 17,19, 21, MIL letter to...
Long time lurker, first time poster. Not going anonymous because I really DGAF. BG: MIL is my BEC. DH has pretty much dropped the rope with her but I feel some sick twisted obligation to bring DDs...
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MOO wants us to do 5 Christmases...
I will admit my family is emehsed. I've been working on that by lurking. I have a thread around here somewhere about ILs but I'm on mobile and don't know how to link it. Not that it matters as it...
View ArticleMIL does not accept my role as a stay at home dad
I've been a stay at home dad for nine years. My wife and I have three kids, all girls. Since my wife has a high paying corporate job, and I struggled at getting jobs, I decided to stay home. Our...
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Update of sorts and question about anger [Trigger warning- prior pregnancy loss]
Hi everyone. It's been awhile since I posted here (I did post on the Private DWIL board more recently due to sensitivity/privacy issues involving my teenage sister) and I wanted to give a little...
View Articlenew q page 5? *triggers throughout* 3, 5, fm q pg 5, Chr cancer/lawn tantrum...
To start, here is the somewhat relevant bg: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a57281572/fil_calls_my_son_by_the_name_he_chose and...
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