I want a diploma in my hand not an ultrasound PG 15 I'm miserable.
"*smh* just what i was missing in my life. I want a diploma in my hand not an ultrasound, I don't want to see that." And that is exactly what my SOs mother said. VENT! We barely told his mom today that...
View ArticleIndian MIL- bossy and needy update 22 MIL coming back
MIL has been constantly ill since we got married. She feels that my husband will leave her in old age. She is only 60 but 60 is old in a third world country we come from. Also, DILs are not respected...
View ArticleHow to talk to DH about IL
I have lurked for a while and had to post. My husband family has been boundary stompers and over bearing but went off the rails when we had kids. I'm pregnant again and convince DH to go to a counselor...
View ArticleI'm back for help a year later..
Hello again! I hate to be back over same issues but I have no one else to turn to. I was trying to link my old post, but I couldn't figure out how to. If someone can, please do. If not ask away I'll do...
View ArticleMIL complains about "being put on a schedule" UD TO has unleashed the bsc!!
My FMIL has been giving SO shit because she feels she should be able to text us when she's in the area and ask if she can come by and see LO. In his words, she "grilled him in front of his friend about...
View ArticlePassive aggressive mil
It's my first time posting here but I need some advice on how to handle this sutuation: Mil and fil are staying with us "to meet" our one month old. Fil is here to work with dh and mil is here with me....
View ArticleSIL stikes again ... Where to go from here?
I posted a few months ago about my SIL (my DH brothers wife) I am mobile so don't know how to post the BG post here. Anyways I have been up since 2:30 am trying to decide where I go from here......
View ArticleMom question - what would u do
So due 12/22 with our second. Both my husband and I live in the US with no family whatsoever around (we are from Ireland). Debating whether to bring my mom over. We get along ok, but are very different...
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CO IL contacted me, do I tell DH?
Hi all! Alright, I've been a lurker and only posted twice on DWIL, it's been ages and posts are on my old account. So a little BG, DH's mother is a textbook narc mom. Aaall bad. DH went through a lot...
View ArticleMil confronted me. UD 5,6,12,18,24,26,28, UD 34,38 UD 41
My MIL confronted me and I need advice on how to tell my SO. On Saturday we went to a party for SO uncle. SO and FIL were off playing a game, I was sitting with MIL and my lo. Lo is 8 months. After...
View ArticleBabysitting for SIL, it's getting old and I have a couple questions...
So I've been babysitting my nephew off and on for a little over a year now (he's almost 2). At first I was just doing SIL a favor and it wasn't a big deal because it was usually for only 2 hours a day....
View ArticleDebil Defriending
I'm not sure I overreacted or not but I had enough today and defriended all the inlaws. It was the straw that broke the camels back situation. Two weeks ago I caught mil snooping in my room but said...
View ArticleDealing with boundries for adult daughter UDpg10
Let me preface this with "it's about the dog, but it's not about the dog." ODD is married and lives on her own. All her friends are here but Son-in-law is military so they live 5 hours away. SIL is in...
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MOO's romantic vacation with BOO, am I over reacting?
First, I have background about my in laws but this is the first time I am posting about my Foo. I am the eldest of two, my BOO is the baby, and has always been the favorite. Its been pretty sour grapes...
View ArticleLooking to end a TO, but how?: Advice needed UD 4, 5, 8: ITO 13, FIL email 13
Relevant BG http://community.babycenter.com/post/a60407452/its_beginning_to_look_a_lot_like_an_awkward_christmas_updates_121316_rugsweeping_attempt_17 DH and I have decided to begin the process to end...
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Update 9/10 MIL (future): I think I created the idea of entitlement. Advice...
Does anyone else get annoyed when other's say MY baby besides SO? Lately I have becomed annoyed when MIL says My baby. Maybe it's just other things that I kept bottling up. For example: day of delivery...
View ArticleTranslation?
So today DH had a text exchange with his mother that really upset him. I'd like to share it with you to see what you think. Yesterday she was trying to come over, and DH held his ground and said no...
View ArticleSee brother after a decade? UD 18 stolen, 20, 21, 24, 28, 30, ?, 35
Updates: 5,6,8,12,13,16 We are supposed to be visiting my mom this weekend, and she just called to tell me my half brother (hboo) is there. Background: my hboo worked for this guy in high school, and...
View ArticleAm I too picky about My mother (MOO)?
My mother and I are close, she Drives me nuts honestly, but I feel kind of sorry for her and love her and spend time with her both out of love and guilt. yesterday during a visit out at dinner, she let...
View ArticleFamily Gathering not Show and Tell
I have posted here before and everyone has been very helpful. So I come back with a new situation. Tonight I go to an impromptu family cookout celebrating my cousin's engagement. I came alone with my...
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