First Mother's day ruined? Update p. 4, help with message p. 5
LO is just over 3 months old. TBH I have been so freaking exhausted recently that I don't know if I'm overreacting or what. There is a background on DWIL with me getting upset with DH and what I...
View ArticleHow to speak calmly to smil about my expectations of her
Hi ladies, long time BBC member here. I'm part of private boards here, and was told to come to this group. If anyone wishes a CF I would do it. DH's dad remarried two years ago. She's a sweet person...
View ArticleShe is useless....
So, i will begin by saying that i have posted here before concering my FOO and have that handled and i can update on that thread. This is about my MIL. I can give more background if needed but this is...
View ArticleMIL buying holiday outfits
This isn't a huge deal, but I'm turning to DWIL for some advice on how to handle this situation. My MIL had 4 children, all boys. I have a 4 week old little girl, her first grandchild. Understandably,...
View ArticleHow would you handle this. Update p10,18,30,43
I've been a lurker and occassional poster for a year or more so I know how this board works. I am the future MIL in this situation and I need the cold,hard honest truth on how to handle this My son and...
View ArticleI despise my MIL (long)
BG info: so basically H and I had been engaged for a little over a year before finding out we were expecting our LO. We waited to announce to anyone until I was around 10 weeks, which at that point MIL...
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Miscarriage and in laws
My SILs have not said anything to me or my husband since our miscarriage last week. They know about what happened, as MIL told them. One of my BILs spoke to my husband this week. But still I have not...
View ArticleWant to be done with SIL
My DH and I have a 22-month-old DS and a 13-day-old DD. We have been separated for a little over 3 weeks due to my DH's verbal abuse towards me (never our kids). He grew up in a family where that sort...
View ArticleShould I take my dog?
Hi ladies. I joined BBC 4 years ago! But lost my original login. I moved in with my parents, DD and my dog when my SO and I split (almost 2 years ago). After very much work and therapy I am finally in...
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SIL says I'm being ridiculous concerning my postpartum plan UPDATE pg 7 DH's...
I’ve been lurking for a few months and have gone anon because I used my name for my original s/n. Background: DF and I have been together for almost 3 years for simplicity I will refer to him as DH...
View ArticleMIL's controlling behavior with DSS *Very long
I don't know where to begin writing this. My friend suggested this board to me as I'm at my wits end with my MIL. I'm a long time BBC user but have no experience with this board, but I did read the...
View ArticlePeaches and cream 43,48 beginning of the end, 50
9,10,14,17, 20,pos.drive by 22,txt23,26,faux apology39,43, I don't really know where to begin on this. My dh and I have been together 5 years married 3. He is a single child to his mother. He's almost...
View ArticleSIL called DD14 Fat
This is my 2nd post here. But I know how this board works.So my sister in law who is all of 95lbs and 47 with no kids came into OUR home and called our 14 year old daughter fat.I was upstairs putting...
View ArticleDH family playing us against each other
I'm a private person. I have a few close friends but tend to be private. I'm polite to my in laws and I occasionally attend functions. Here was the issue. Some women in DH family ask DH about things in...
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Hijacked baby shower and FMs Update 4...update 8
Morning DWIL I need outside advice. My aunt offered to throw us a sprinkle for our daughter due soon. I'm currently almost 35 weeks pregnant. Because of my health, they want to take her via RCS at 37...
View ArticleHelp Writing a Boundaries Letter to BIL
I haven't posted on BBC in years but I came back to find your board recently to get some perspective on both my FOO and my IL. I've been lurking for a while now and I've read the sticky so I think I'm...
View ArticleMy brothers issues with me (triggers)
I came here to post because I'm having an issue with my FOO and I've seen the advice you give and you folks here are tough and I think I need that. This isn't really something that requires immediate...
View ArticleSurgery on my due date? Update page 8
MIL And I have a pretty good relationship. I can't complain.. DH is the youngest of four and most stable so he's the favorite. Mil goes to him for advice and what not all the time. I've noticed that in...
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MIL keeps asking to babysit but she's unsafe, how can i nicely say no?
Sorry long... MIL isn't my favorite person. I don't hate or dislike her, we get along surface fine but we don't have a relationship. She annoys me, I find her passive aggressive and it wasn't until i...
View ArticleSmall Children of CO people, how to deal?
Hi dwilers. I am just wondering. How do you deal with small children of co people? I cut off some members of my foo and I have seen one of them quite often lately. When I do, I cover my baby since she...
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